My boyfriend is a bit overweight. I don't mind, though. For one, I love his personality. Also, he is actually pretty healthy. He eats rather well most of the time and he is pretty active. Actually, sometimes he is too active and I have to shout "SIT DOWN FOR FUCKS SAKE" haha He is also actively trying to get healthier and slimmer. Which is great.
Who cares if he/she is fat? I know a lot of boys and a lot of girl who are fat, and if they were slim they wouldn't be as pretty as they are! I mean, everyone is different, it doesn't depend on your size. Then, you have to see if you like the personality and the way they are! You can be extra slim but have a bad way to talk, to move, ecc...
I think we are all given that prejudice of not liking fat people. Of course personal taste is important but ask your self how much of your personal taste is dictated by society. If you were born centuries ago, thickness and chubbiness was the thing. Im hispanic and chubbier girls are more accepted then skinny petite anorexia. No when it comes to obese then thats a different story. But they shouldnt be judged either. many people have a fetish for that.. I myself am on the heavier side (though i have a football players body), my girlfriend is petite. After dating me she says she has changed her mind of chubiness. Plus it looks good when a petite girl has a bigger boyfriend, makes me fell like her bodyguard and like i can protect her and she likes knowing shes safe amongst other things. Finally all there is to say is accept others and dont knock it till you try, cause theres tons of things i said i wouldnt like till my mind ripped open and now has space for enjoying. Its like saying a seal is better then a whale because of its size, or that a skinny monkey is better then a bigger fatter one. With then we only see characteristic, with us we see right and wrong??????
Well, being a fat dude i guess i should contribute a bit. I am 6'2" about 250, and although i have a muscular build and am told i "wear it well" (whatever thats supposed to mean), i could stand to lose about 50 pounds. With all that said i don't have any issues attracting very pretty women. Mentally, i will admit i am not a fat guy, meaning it doesn't really cross my mind too much. I feel great, being overweight doesn't put me at a disadvantage with anything i do, and don't really care too much about what others think. When i was younger i had no self esteem and was always shy and nervous with girls...meaning i got no action. As i grew up i seemed to have changed mentally more into a very chill and easygoing guy with plenty of confidence, and have no problem going up to anyone and shooting the shit. And to the people that think everyone that is fat is gross and just a lazy slob, i would love for some of these close minded people to be able to hang out for a few days. I know so many people, am very active and have enough fun to have most peoples heads spinning after a while. Sorry if this seems like i am hyping myself alot, but, there have been some posts that kind of rubbed me the wrong way, and i would just like to try to set some things straight. Anyways, moral of the story is, any overweight people out there sitting there reading all of these posts, dont be discouraged. Just go out and have a good time, talk to everyone, crack jokes, and if you are fun to be around and are SINCERE they will still flock.
i've had a few crushes on some fat people in my life, even before i became a chubby person myself. they were wonderful. the body didn't really register so much as my joy at being around them.
no not if they were like....overweight. I prefer girls to have a bit of meat on their bones (i honestly dont like skinny girls) girls with a bit of fat, enough to bring out their naatural curves. But if i couldn't fit my arms around her.....nah i wudn't think about it....
I would date someone who's thin, athletic, or a bit chubby...what's a big turn-off for me is overly muscular guys. But sometimes a person's personality is so amazing a fitting to you, that you are attracted to them regardless...at least that's how it is for me.
having always taken care of my body (except for the drinking and drugging) I expected my gfs and lovers to do the same, was ideal weight/shape for my height whole life, varying only 5# either way. My present wife was very stocky when we met and married, and after our last child her weight has mushroomed to nearly double, affects sexual positions, but love her so deal w/ it. None gfs/lovers size and shapes both m/f ever bothered me, was not a, pardon me, fatty hater, just part of my preset image of gf/lover.
i think some girls look good being a little chubby..like a little bit of a belly or something..some girls can pull it off i don't like girls to be too skinny tho..i like it if they're a little thick
I love love bigger guys, not where the chin jiggles and the whole body waves back and forth, thats gross to me. but guys who are more husky and look good with a bigger body and DO try to watch what they eat and care healthy about themselves, i love that more than guys skinny or with muscles. they're so cute to hold and cuddle with too. you feel protected around them
If they're REALLY fat then I doubt it, but if they're a little chubby or average it's a possibility if they have a nice personality =)