What will happen if i rub anal eze inside my girl, on the 2 sphincter muscles to numb them? I know some people dont advise using numbing agents but i want to know what will happen if i put a little inside of her rather than just on the outside of the hole.
Anal Eze is for boobs who want to force anal sex on their s/o. If she/he wants it, you don't need any kind of numbing product. This is one activity that both people are supposed to enjoy. Anal is about care, not about force!!
It figures i would get a know it all idiot answering my question and not someone with useful information. If you are an immature kid, please don't reply.
Well, I think it's pretty obvious what would happen. Her nerve endings would be numbed, therefore if you were hurting her, she wouldn't feel it. Until, of course, you two were done, and there was damage back there. At which point, it depends on how serious the damage is. Whether it warrants a trip to the doctor, or just a painful few weeks as she heals. Anal numbing creams, sorry, are a really stupid idea. For one thing, sex is about MUTUAL pleasure - not numbing someone so you can just go have fun. Which is what the other poster was indicating. For another, nerve endings are important as they transmit either pain or pleasure. If she can't feel pain, you could do serious damage. As pain is her body saying "stop, something is wrong." If she can't feel pleasure - then, again, it gets back to the lack of mutuality in sex. If you do anal correctly, it shouldn't hurt. And you don't need any numbing creams. Seriously.
Well i am glad an educated person answered this and not a 12 year old. With her we have tried taking and slow and we use tons of the Sliquid Silk stuff, it works great and it doesn't make her burn like the KY does. When we take it slow she feels a little discomfort but not any major pain or anything. So i got some anal eze for her to try cause i want to see if we can get to her have an orgasm doing it that way. That would be really awesome if she could. She isnt really into anal but she lets me do it because she knows i like it every now and then. Anyways i just wanted to be sure that if i rubbed a little inside of her on the two sphincter muscles that she wouldnt like go into convulsions and die on me or anything lol. More people like the educated one that replied are welcome to give some feedback on this subject btw.
I'm confused on how exactly putting numbing cream onto her anus would give her an orgasm? She wouldn't feel much of what was happening back there, and that's very dangerous. As she might think she's OK for rougher/faster ... when, in fact, she's not. But, beyond that ... numbing a person's nerve endings isn't the best way to go about giving them an orgasm. It's a bad idea - really, just forget it. If you google stories on numbing the anus before sex ... you'll come across a lot of bad/negative experiences. I can't believe that product is even sold, honestly. I moderate a different love/sex message board (more strict one in terms of age, etc.) and every time the topic of "help, I'm in pain due to anal" comes up - it's linked to numbing agents. Fortunately, anal sex doesn't affect the clitoris. If you want to give her an orgasm - use the clitoris to give her pleasure, while you enjoy her ass. The two aren't incompatible, and no numbing cream needs to be involved. Also, there's only one anal sphincter muscle.
Hey, Just looking around for anal type talk and found this thread. My name is Amanda (CD/TV). I'm So excited about My new toy I baught 10 min ago at Albertsons Stick with Me -this is relevant. It's called Toypedo Trident, from "Swim Ways", and it's a pool toy shaped like a misile about a foot long and const. of hollow, soft (but firm) plastic. On Sale in the pool isle for 3.99. I wont try it till this weekend, but I'm So Sure it will work! I hurt alot when I try to use my dildo at first, and I don't like that. It's a realistic size and shaped dildo, so I'm not only wanting some fun, but I'm practicing for Mr. Right's go at it with Me at the same time. But I don't want to over do it and make my bum permanently loose (no more snappy fart -ever again). Now with a more gradual slide instead of a blunt one, it should take out alot of time/pain from the start! Update!! I had to try it before I posted this reply (to see). And No it didn't help speed it up at all. It Still Hurts!!! I was hoping to open up faster with the torpedo, and then just be instantly ready for the dildo -but no! You'll just have to let Her take it at Her own pace, and when She wants it, or damage will result Mr. Booger! I have a system for You to use on Her if You would like to hear. Worked for Me with two Women so far. But it's allot of work (and time), but no damage, just fun for Both!! I have to go now, let Me know if interrested -chow!
So far what we do is use Sliquid silk, i also bought her a Jellies toy a while back that she thinks is "ok" it is like 6 inches long with the 5 little bulbs on it, the biggest being like 1.25" or 1.5 " i cant remember. When we have time she plays with that to loosen up and then i get to go in. But sometimes our time is short and she just slides me in slowly. But i want to see her gape, because gape is friggin hot or at least in the pics i have seen, she is the first girl i have tried to actually gape. So i got her like a 7 or 8" toy that is kind of like a normal dildo but with a pencil shaped end, it is 1.75" around past the tip of it but she cant get that in to far just yet. Just my main thing is getting her past the discomfort of it, we take our time and use lots of lube but she still dont like it much. I can make her cum no problem vaginally but i want to get her to where she likes anal so much she can cum from the stimulation while i am doing her the other way! Also as for the sphincter muscle thing, when i put my fingers in her i can feel two rings about 1/4 of an inches apart or less from each other. One is controlled voluntarily and the other is controlled by the heart beat and how tense the person is. I am not sure if the second muscle is also a sphincter muscle but thats what i call it till i know its real name at least lol.
Booger 47, I hate ad hominum attacks but you are a selfish moron. She doesn't really like it, so you say, but you insist on doing it anyway. You say she finds it uncomfortable. You think you can train her to like anal by continuing to do it. So, it's all about you and not about her. Find another girl who likes anal and leave this poor girl alone!!
Most people do not "gape" after anal. What causes gaping is really working the anus, slowly and over time, and not a single session of anal. If she really isn't gung ho about anal, the chances of her being okay with you staring at her gaping hole (provided you could loosen her up enough to make it gape) are slim and none. Oh, and numbing her will DECREASE the chances of orgasm. If she likes the way it feels, she will orgasm. Give her time! Remember what you see in porn isn't real life, you should stop expecting your girlfriend to indulge your fantasies. Be happy that she is willing, and use porn to indulge your gaping fantasy.
Well as to the person who called me a selfish moron i am laughing at you right now, because we tried it again tonight and i was able to get 4 fingers in, and both of the toys we picked out. Oh and she had a good time doing it too, a little discomfort every now and then but shit happens. She just happens to be stubborn. Also if you in a relationship with someone, both people have needs and the "partner" needs to be there to fufill, and if she wants to fufill my needs discomfort or not thats her decision. If you were in a war zone you wouldnt want a member of your unit not come to your aid because they are scared a bullet will hurt if they get hit by one! Dont try and twist that just because one person has needs that they want met that they are being selfish, like you have never once in your life tried to get your way even if the other person was a little reluctant. Thats just human nature, cant deny what you are! Also about the original topic of this post, we tried rubbing a little Eze inside of her and it numbed it like it was supposed to but she said it just felt odd, but hey at least she didnt go into like convulsions and die on me!! Woot lol
Booger47, your posts are strictly for attention and your entertainment. Anyone who thinks like you is a Neanderthal. When you want sex with your woman do you just drag her by the hair back to the cave or do you just let her walk on all fours? Love by force? I think they call that rape. And many a rape happens in the bedroom. You're very amusing!!
Yea, I think your idea of sex and love is rather primitive. In my relationship, we don't do things unless they're MUTUALLY pleasurable. Neither of us wants the other to do something which causes them discomfort. I guess we just don't find one another's discomfort very arousing. We prefer it if the arousal and enjoyment and orgasms are there on BOTH sides. I find it odd, and selfish, that you enjoy anal sex despite the fact that your girlfriend is in discomfort, and does not particularly like it. Call us crazy - but we think love and sex are mutual. So, if an act causes one of us discomfort, we don't do it. It's not the person who feels discomfort that should compromise, and go through with it anyway. It's the other person who should show understanding and patience. As opposed to numbing nerve endings so they can have fun themselves.
