I am unsure if I am bi or not. I know for certain I like women and I tell others that I am bi. But it all honesty I'm not 100% sure... More 60% sure. Sometimes I really feel I want a boyfriend, then other times I am unsure if that's the kind've thing that appeals to me. I have only had one experience with a boy and it was only a french kiss. I didn't really enjoy it, but I think it may have been partially as I saw him more of a friend. If I had the choice, I would kiss another guy, but obviously that doesn't make me bisexual automatically. I think sometimes I'm incredibly confident about it and other times I'm not. I'd like som advice thanks. Really would be appreciated. Thank you x
How close are you to this guy you kissed? I might be just as you said, that the relationship you and him have made the mood kinda strange and that can affect the enjoyment of anything like that you and him might do in either a positive or a negative way (in this case negative). My advice is to find a guy you like and have a good relationship with but not a close friendly relationship. What I mean is not a best friend. My best friend IMO is the greatest guy in the world but the relationship we have is strictly platonic. I cannot imagine kissing him. I'm sure you'll know which guy to choose and that will make all the difference.
Maybe I'm jaded with a half-century of varied sexual experience. Don't worry about what you are. You are 16. You are sexual. Enjoy the freedom to explore and don't try to pigeonhole yourself. Bisexual would be a good tag if you need one, until you decide later which gender you prefer to be intimate with but now it is about exploring and if you have the oportunity explore as much diversity as you can. And ENJOY!
For god sake don't think that just because you just had a kiss with a guy automatically makes you bi. just when your ready you could try expermanting with anougher guy and see how it goes also as shale says you 16 - enjoy it and go for it.
You are young and horny, enjoy it and don't over think it. I know plenty of straight people who have had one or two experimental encounters and decided it was not their thing.
