Ladies: What are you thinking when a date accidentally penis pokes you?

Hypathetically speaking, this can be with a guy you go to the prom with, someone you dance with at a club, or a first date with someone...

But my question to you is: What is it that goes through your mind when you have clothed physical contact with a guy for the first time, and he just so happens to get a hard on from standing so close to you? ...Or, due to some other circumstances where you two are physically close to each other, you accidentally brush up against him and discover that his cock is hard.

Many years ago I was that guy, but I think it had more to do with me being physically and mentally attracted to that girl than sex. Now that I think about it, it may have been the flirty banter between us, and them standing so close that most of us guys associate it with that moment that leads up to making out and sexual passion. Some guys can control it by tuning it out mentally, or jerking off before the date, while others can't. I guess it's kind of a compliment to you if a guy is turned on by you, but it also sends a message to you that we can get hard at the drop of a dime, and may want sex all of the time.

So... Does it bother you?

 

It doesn't bug me if it's a guy that I'm into. Unless he makes it really clear and grinds aganist me.

 

So if you're on a cordial first time date and you happen to discover that he's hard, do you make a comment about it to him, or just ignore it like it never happened?

 

I may wink, to see what he does, but if he's grinding on me I'll say something, and it'll be loud.

 

I say smack that thing on her and see what happens next. lol

 

I'm surprised no other women have commented on this... Seeing that you would think that it's so common for teens and young adults.

 

most of the time i either
A. pretend i didnt notice Or
B. give a little coy smile

most of the time i feel a little flattered, unless the guy is really scungy, then i would be creeped out.
very rarely will i comment, maybe "oop, sorry"

 

Agreed. If he is really obvious and sad about it, yuck. But otherwise it turns me on a lot.

 

It's funny that you mention that, because for the most part a lot of guys probably feel a little embarrassed that it was noticed. Whether visually, or if brushed against by accident... Who knew that women would be turned on by it - given the circumstances.

 

haha this is hilarious. Its happened a few times. I smile, look down at it, up into his eyes and an eyebrow goes up. I love making men nervous.. haha Im evil I know.

 

It's probably more accepted now than it was ten to twenty years ago, because men were probably viewed as perverts back then. These days, women are just as likely to be open to perverted scenarios as much as men.