First post on here so hey everyone I've been single for just over a year, and the last bf I was had turned out to just be a player. After that I got a bit depressed and thought that I'd never find the right guy. Funnily enough, four months later I met someone on the net. I added him and I couldn't believe he was real at first. I saw his picture and was like he's really hot! We got talking and it turned out he was a really nice, genuine person too. I saw a picture of his friends and they're all model hot as well (including his ex), which made me feel wonder if I was actually good enough even though I already knew he liked me a lot. Anyway we were supposed to meet up twice but it never happened and we've not chatted in a few weeks now. We have each others numbers as well. Now the dilemma is this: I keep telling myself to forget all about it and move on, but I my thoughts drift back to him one way or another. Anyone think this is worth holding onto a little longer? Any suggestions on the good ways to get over someone?
its got to be awkward meeting someone off the internet. it sounds awesome at first, but you really do need to develop some sort of a relationship first. Ive never done it, nor am i opposed to it either. Basically, i think he is still into you, but hes just too scared or shy to take it to the next level. Keep talking and finding out more about what kind of person he is exactly, and then do some critical thinking about if he is still someone you would get along with. If so, i think you should discuss the way you feel about your relationship with him at that point....good luck!
girls have it so much easier than guys! what i would recommend is this: brush up on your social skills, go out with your girl friends and forget about guys. if you have your life together and are an interesting person guys will flock to you, looks dont really have much to do with it. stop trying to meet guys on the internet, that just makes you look desperate. get off myspace and get a hobby, you will meet way more guys this way.
Great advice, IMjustfishin, absolutely what she needs. Bet she won't take it. "All women seek after idle men, though their children need a rich estate," wrote Yeats. He (the guy she contacted) looked 'hot,' as did his friends. Though they were to meet up, never happened. If the computer is the 'social skill' you mentioned, what is there to brush up? But:: Hey Jadesunset! Hey! Take IMjustfishin's advice. It'll be a whole new life. Honest!
Looks like I've been judged and you couldn't be more wrong I already do have a life, a very busy one so I spend more time working and have sparing time to relax or go out. Doing my hobbies are a luxury I can rarely afford. Seems like the impression I gave was of someone who is bone idle. When I do go out I sometimes meet new people, no one I've been interested in though. It's not a big town where I live as well so I know near enough everyone. That's the main reason why I was unsure whether to just forget about it or not, since it's rare to find someone I really like. Another thing is he isn't just a stranger. A close friend knows him and when she found out he liked me, got us talking. I'm not one to "meet guys off the internet" and it was the first time I had ever done anything like that.
