I just started having sex with my new girlfriend and im cumming to fast. I hadnt had sex in a while and when i did i had the same problem with every girl except for a girl i was in "love with".I lasted how ever long i wanted with her but the sex was boring. I really like this girl and she likes to have sex but for some god alful reason i cant peform and it doesnt make sex great at all.. hell i even have a decent sized dick but im not lasting longer then two mintues at most. When she gives me head i dont bust or even when she jacks me off i can hold myself but why am i having so much trouble lasting longer. Shes on the depo shot so we dont have sex as often as neither one of us wont to because she has spotting and wears tampons often. Im guessing though once me and her do it more ill get over this problem right?
Practise with yourself, last as long as possible on your own and that will help. Also tighten the muscles that help you hold back, best way is when you take a leak, only let half go, then hold the rest back for 25 mins. This will help.
last night when we had sex i was drunk as hell drinking vodka and thinking about baseball it was crazy i lasted much longer and was even thrusting hard it felt great...i think even after i came i told her i was thinking of baseball and she told me im gettin better,it lasted longer then two mintues. when i did cum she was like i hope your done(like i said i got a decent sized dick .....but i wont be happy till i control my self one hundred percent....i really wont to figure out how to keep my self hard even after i bust
Getting drunk and thinking about baseball isn't exactly the best way to have sex. A good old tip is to masturbate before you have sex, which should make you last longer. And there's those kegel exercises which give you a harder erection, stronger ejaculation and can help you last longer, but that's a long term thing.
Thick condoms, masturbation... All work well, but ideally, you should try to work on your kegels. Still, it may take you a while. If there is intense attraction, it can take quite a bit of practice.
