friendship between heterosexual male and female

Gay guys have sex with women alright. I've had gay friends who get laid more often that me! (with women) It's not as though they even fancy women either, they are not bi, which kind of irritates me greatly.

 

Okay. I want to say this to this thread.

Yes, it's possible. It happens. It's a great thing. BUT

If there is any attraction at all and you are alone a lot and there are um... alcohol or drugs involved... the friendship can cross the line very easily.

That is why I chose not to be around guys that I care about a lot in a friendship way but find attractive too... in an alone setting and drink. Been there, done that. It's great but it sucks.


Sober or around people and being aware? Sure, it's possible.

 

I don't know how it would be impossible for the sexless guy to be happy... but ehh... who knows... them sexless people can just be sex maniacs in disguise.

 

yeah.. the only girls that i feel i can kinda be friends w/ are the ones that are completely unattractive to me.. otherwise i just wanna get some. & if this isn't a possibility i usually ignore them completely. this may be mean, but it's just the way i've always operated

 

Yes, its possible. For sure.
Even if both are super hot and attractive.
Not everyone is obsessed with sex.


Its working for me. Most of my friends are guys and theres no attraction.

 

Most of my best friends are guys and most of them are pretty attractive. I do have strictly platonic relationships with all of them (with the exception of one, with whom I hooked up with in a drunken mess, but we've talked about it and it was only one night!!)

I think it's definitely possible. I think of my guy friends as brothers. It's almost creepy to think about them in a sexual way. I don't have many girlfriends so if I tried to fuck every guy that became my friend, I wouldn't have any friends left.

 

i'm not talking about eunuchs; i mean normal people who just don't have enough sex

 

Is that a mix between emo and lama?

 

Not everyone needs sex in order to survive in this sad sad world.

 

why the hell is friendship not possible with sex involved?

I've slept with all of my best bitches .... and the few that I haven't is more a matter of 'yet'. And we're still friends!

 

oh?

i don't know anyone like that who's not a priest, and i mostly just don't want to think about their sex life...

 

you're assuming they think you're hot, this could be a very big assumption. not trying to be mean, just honest. i'm sure there are some (unattractive) girls that i'm friends w/ that think they are very attractive.. but it's just not the case with me

 

have you seen piaf?

 

no.. but i have pretty high standards & don't trust word of mouth

 

Have you ever considered making friends with slightly more intelligent people?

 

She is pretty hot, aside from the whole fake looking tan thing.

 

what if your friend is a male canine...does this mean we will end up mating..

 

john candy .... spaceballs.

 

not really... i've had a wide variety of friends and they all wanted to have sex no matter what their level of intelligence...

not to mention the fact that i never said i was referring only to my friends

 

^^makes me think of clerks 2.. that scene w/ the donkey is pretty funny