Me and the bf have been watching quite a bit of porn recently at the weekend and I find myself getting so turrned on by watching really big black dicks!! All the porn he seems to get has mostly black men in and usually involves one girl and several really hung guys who end up double penetrating her, cumming all over her you know the story! I find this a massive turn on and get wetter than you can imagine and I will often get one of the dildos and he'll make me cum whislt saying things like 'imagine it's a big black cock inside you' blah blah blah! He knows it turns me on and it really turns him on too. He seems to get off on thinking about me being with a few big cocks!! I must say the idea doesn't seem so bad!! A few nights recently I have dreamt about being gangbanged and woke up sweating with a soaking pussy and just had to play with myself whilst my bf was asleep . At work the other day a colleague said something about this thing that was big and black and I started to think about sucking on a cock! Found myself getting wet again and I am often thinking like this, I am getting turned on now just writing this and it's not feelings that I have had before. My bf is feeding this 'fantasy' by playing the porn and all the things he says like 'bet you'd cum if you had those 2 big black dicks in you' and it gets me thinking about it. just really don't know where to go next you know? Is he going to ask me if I want to sleep with other men? He has said before he'd like to see me being shagged by a really big dick but I thought he was messing. If he did ask seriously what the hell would I say??! Or have I got the wrong end of the stick and for him it is just fantasy too??
This falls under the cuckoldry fetish, which is basically an interest in the woman having sex with other men. Guys and gals have it, including myself, and what you wrote drove me crazy. Two questions: 1) Assuming he was ok with it (or even if he wasn't), would you feel tempted to go through with it? Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT saying you should do it if he doesn't want you to, I'm just trying to get into your frame of mind. 2) A question you must ask him if you actually desire it: Does HE actually desire it? Would he go through it in reality, letting you get laid? Talk in detail. Compromise. Does he want to watch? Does he just want you to do it then hear about it? Does he have hard limits, such as no kissing, no getting eaten out, etc.? Perhaps you should start out with some role play situation. Have him pretend to be someone else, maybe a friend of yours, and say his name during sex. Get him used to the little feeling of jealousy. After a while, for some guys the jealousy can get REALLY hot (Even when watching you get fucked by a bigger, more well endowed, and more skilled lover). It's just a load of fun for some, but it's NOT for everyone. I really want to find out what happens!
If he wanted me to then I would consider it, but I would need to have some dutch courage first! It would be a weird experience to have and I am just wondering about the consequences and if it would ruin our relationship. TBH the fantasy sounds good, but could it really work? I think a good step forward is the role play situation . I'll do some probing, see if I can find out what he really thinks
I'm guessing you've never tried black dick before. What's that saying, once you go black you don't go back? You try white and go running back to black?
I haven't seen a black man's cock in reality, I have never really known any. I told my boyfriend that I would love to be fucked by several big black guys to gauge his reaction and he said it wouldn't be too hard to arrange, although I don't know how he would do it as we don't know any! I think if I was going to do it I would prefer for it to be natural rather than arranged and for it just to happen one night after maybe meeting them in a club. My bf sent me a pic of a girl holding 2 black dicks when I was at work and I got well wet and we had a great shag later that evening! I think he is serious but I'm not sure how I feel about that - if he really loved me would he really want to see me with other men? And why would it turn him on to see me fucked by a big dick as his is so little?! Is this some kind of kinky submissive thing? ? Is / should this all be just fantasy??!! Sometimes I feel like I wanna really do it and then later I will think that I shouldn't be having these thoughts.....
I really think it's awesome that he's genuinely down for it. Really awesome. You haven't tried to the role play situation, have you? Even though he said yes to the full nine yards, it still seems like a hot warm up. I really agree when you say natural is better. There are quite a few cuckold fetishists who arrange everything, and I find it a little phony. I think the best way of going about it is to just cheat on him (with permission.) Go out on dates. Try to fulfill your lust for big black dick. There are however a couple issues with the natural approach: A) Potential to humiliate your boyfriend: Do you live in a big city or a small town where everyone knows everyone? If you're in a close knit little town and people know about you and your boyfriend, then before you know it, your bf will be known as the local cuckold loser. B) Problems with him watching: If you go for the natural approach, meeting a black dude at a club and you wind up sucking him/fucking him, does your boyfriend want to watch? If he just wants to know you've been with a big black guy, hearing you talk about him can be quite enough. But if he wants to watch, the stud you plan to fuck might be a little (or more than a little) creeped out. I say that if you can, convince your boyfriend to stay away, at least until you've found a very open minded black lover who will agree to be watched. If he really loved you would he want you with other men? Fuck yes. Cuckoldry is a perversion that can easily be enjoyed within the confines of a loving, trusting relationship. As a matter of fact, I honestly think that the more emotionally attached a man is to his lady, the more humiliating and exciting a cuckold situation is. You NEED to be truly attached to a woman before her cheating on you takes on any meaning, be it agony or horniness. He seems to want your love with him to be more uninhibited and wild- don't think about this as him outsourcing your love life. Think about this as something he wants AND something you want. This might be a kinky submissive thing, as it is for me. There are guys who are otherwise not submissive or even dominant, but still love cuckoldry. Is your man submissive in other ways? If not, do you think he secretly is? How comfortable are you with male submission? The thing I love about cuckoldry is that it's one of those ways for a woman to dominate her partner while getting all the male dominated sex she can handle, so it often makes everyone happy. Should this all stay a fantasy? I can't be taken as an expert on anything but I figure that on this topic in these forums I've got as much weight as anyone else and I say this should NOT be kept in the confines of fantasy. Women who go through with cucking their man often talk about an increased sex drive, (perhaps ironically) especially with their husbands/bfs. While I never saw my ex cheat with my own two eyes, I was in an unknowing cuckold relationship that later became a confessed, out in the open cuckold relationship. Before we broke up on horrible terms I actually LOVED my place as a lied to, cheated on boyfriend. It was an absolutely unimaginable thrill. I think your guilt shows some sweetness on your part. The guilt and the shame would serve you well in a normal relationship, but I think that if you can help it you should get out of the faithful state of mind. There's nothing shameful about cheating on someone who wants it to happen, and it makes no sense to be ashamed when you want it too. Communication will be very important. Get his reassurances and a final ok from your man right before you go out and go through with it. If there's guilt afterwards, call him and talk it down. There are so many cool things you can do once you get all this started: -Fuck your boyfriend immediately after the lover. Keep his scent, his sweat, and the smell of sex on you- no cleaning up- and while you fuck your bf, tell him everything. Make him suck the nipple Mr. Black man sucked. Make him give you a tongue bath. -Clean up duty! After you sleep with your lover, call the boyfriend over right away or the morning after to eat you out! -Take souvenirs. Your pathetic little boyfriend would be hard as rock watching you strut around the house in your fuck buddy's boxers. -Flirt with your lover on the phone in front of your boyfriend. Ignore your bf, make like he isn't there, and get very intimate. -Shout out your lover's name during sex "accidentally" -if he wants to watch, have your bf serve you two a nice candle-lit dinner beforehand. If you have further questions on cuckolding/male submission/any thing, feel free to PM me. -Make a sex video. Give it to your bf for a birthday.
Blooming hell one step at a time please !! I don't really have the desire to make my boyfriend seem pathetic or belittle him in any way. I just wanna big black cock inside me!! lol For me it's more wanting to feel the size, the power of a big dick, I never cum through penetration except when its with one of my dildos and I see porn where the girl is being fucked by like 2 big dicks and I just think how nice it would feel and how it would make me cum as I love anal and for both to be happening at the same time.......... wow I still want my man to be a man, not saying that cuckolds aren't men, but I don't want him to be submissive. . I would prefer him to take the lead if anything and yeah he has a small cock but he is still manly to me and thinking about it If I ever did get involved with some guys I'd lie him to be there so I could suck on his dick whilst they were fucking me
Sorry, I did get a little- very- carried away with my submissive brand of everything. Still, you should go through with it! Try to meet a guy and ask him if he'd be ok if your bf watched and participated a little. I'm sure you'll find someone, guys are horny as hell.
Wow this is really hot but i agree this is a touchy matter. As long as your sure about your feelings for your bf and know you'll feel the same about him afterwards, it might be alright. I know thats a big thing for a guy. Part of him might really want this but the other is afraid you're feelings will change after the event. OH and gangbang porn...good stuff isnt it? lol
I definately will still feel the same for him if we did anything like that; I love him lots and in the past wouldn't have really considered it and it's a purely sexual thing. I've only had these feelings recently since starting to watch that type of porn. I had another one of those dreams where I am getting shagged really hard by 2 black blokes and I'm cumming loads and then I wake up literally dripping wet ...lol... sounds lovely!! I then made myself cum very quickly and went back to sleep! What am I like??!! If only my mother could read this....the words 'turning' and 'grave' come to mind! xx
Hate to say this, but I think he's looking for a reason to leave you by torturing himself. He's pretending he doesn't mind about the thing that frightens him the most to confirm in his own mind that you don't really want him that much. Complicated, but aren't we all?
