Please help. Girlfriend can't take the pill, or most other kinds of birth control!!!

Ugh, condoms suck. I can't feel a thing through them. I am using them, but they still are awful.

 

You too will get a runaround for a vasectomy, both due to your age and being unmarried. I tried it once in my 20s and they wanted to schedule me for a psych counseling. Usually, married men with children are the vasectomy candidates. Otherwise, your testes are still in there so your sex drive should be normal, and I haven't heard of pain except immediately after the snipping.

If her hysterecomy only removes the uterus, she should still have hormones. If ovaries are removed she may need hormone replacement - altho my wife never needed it and also would get quite wet - vaginal dryness being another side effect of hysterectomy.

An IUD is an intra-uterine device, which somehow prevents the fertilized egg from attaching. That and the cervical cap with spermicide is about your best bet.

And, being male, I know exactly why condoms are shunned. They are restrictive, put pressure on your penis, squeezing the blood out and do lessen sensation.

However, they are doable if necessary. If you are large, use the magnums. The "normal one size fits all" are sometimes too tight on men who aren't exceptionally hung.

 

Just wrap yourself, I know it suck. But it is probably best.

 

That's a huge risk. Surgery is violent and irrevocable. Always use it as a last resort! You don't need it.