for me, it all depends on personality. i can fancy someone, talk to them, and if they are a prick i stop fancying htem automatically. this works exactly the same in the otherway also. i thinkit is all about altering your perception and seeing things from a different place. peace morna
Yea, that would be great, but unfortunatly so far girls can't seem to look beyond my not-so-good looks and see the real me. *sigh* If only they knew how I really am. Oh well, maybe someday...someday.
i am only attracted to someone if their personality captives me as well. like misfontella said.........the personality can make someone beautiful even though you would have never turned your head in their direction if you hadnt met them. looks dont matter much to me, but they do matter. i couldnt really kiss an ugly person and feel turned on by it.
i can honestly say that im not very picky at all when it comes to looks, it basically comes down to personality for me. of course im attracted to someone i see because theyre good looking, but im more likely to go out with someone less than perfect than someone who gets on my nerves and is great looking.
I guess the thing I don't understand is how I always hear girl after girl say that looks don't mean that much to them, and then see them only talking to guys that look good. I didn't think I looked that bad, and girls never seem to want anything to do with me. It just kind of depresses me that girls can really be that shallow. They always talk about how guys are shallow, and yatta yatta, when its really them who are the shallow ones. I'm not trying to be mean, its just one of these mysteries that I can't figure out.