Question:What if u found a friend was attracted to underage people?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by IamnotaMan, Jun 9, 2008.

  1. nudisteve

    nudisteve Banned

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    Lets get real here,
    Its all a question of consent. Rape is rape no matter what the age and the guy should have his cock cut off. But consenting sex with a girl or guy of 14 or 15.... should that really be a problem????????????????????????????????
     
  2. yovo

    yovo Member

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    considering just 100 years ago it was the norm to be married by 15, and often to considerably older men, I'd say there's nothing unhealthy about your friends views unless he's the predatory type.

    I'll be perfectly honest, I'm attracted to teenage girls, and I'd hazzard to guess the same holds true for every other heterosexual male. It's genetics folks, the male mind assosiates youth with fertility which = sexual atraction.

    I'm certainly not condoning relations of sexual nature with minors, just trying to explain that those impulses are natural. Our genetics just havn't caught up with societal norms of the 21st century. The industrial revoluation completely changed our world, threw on an extra 25 years or so to the average life expectancy and did away with large family dynamics(where starting out young was survivalist necessity). So it's like we have this natural instinct to act in a way that's totally outdated and inapropriate for the ages.
     
  3. xLEFTOVERCRACKx

    xLEFTOVERCRACKx Member

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    I dont blame him, the 15 year olds these days are starting to look much older. I once freaked out that this one girl who I was hitting on in a club over here was fuckin 16! I just flipped and left.

    You say that he doesnt have sex outside a relationship. Try helping him on a one night stand or smth.
     
  4. salmon4me

    salmon4me Senior Member

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    No this is a sign that you are over reacting. We've told you that throughout human history a 15 year old female has been considered an adult. It stands to reason that attraction to teenage girls is in fact natural. Of course acting on that attraction is unacceptable, without PARENTAL consent. But your boy hasn't done anything wrong, other than confiding in you.

    And yet you continue to bitch and moan as if there's something wrong with him. I think you need to look within.
     

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