I'm in a real pickle. I and my girlfriend have been dating for oh, about four months now. I love her very much. We're basically the same person. Not going as far as to say we complete each other's sentences and all of that stereotypical mess, but we're very much alike. And I like that. She's the first person to be like that to me. Enough procrastinating/rambling, though. I've been wanting to try anal sex with her. (not me penetrating her, we already do that. :B) As she's -precious- to me, I'm really worried about her telling her friends and having to deal with the shame/her being weirded out, and it putting some awkward, unnecessary distance in between us. Advice?
Well, she says that she's "up for anything" when we're just casually joking about it. It may be a subtle hint that she wants to try it, or just what it seems to be - us casually joking about it. XD
well, theres only one way to find out! I'm sure she'd appreciate your honesty if you were just straight about it with her...and if she doesnt she can go fuck herself....haha
Well, that really wasn't the answer I was looking for, I'm trying to keep her feelings intact here...
ask her straight, or use some medium such as a porn to open a serious conversation about it...if you can't be real about what you want, and she can't deal with it, then you have a lot more problems then bringing up anal sex!
Meh, maybe I should bring it up from a "curiosity" standpoint in the future when we're joking around about it. That seems...subtle enough. @_@
Enough procrastinating/rambling, though. I've been wanting to try anal sex with her. (not me penetrating her, we already do that. :B) What are you asking? If you already penetrate her ass, what is the question? Do you want her to fuck you in the ass?
before i tried it, i told myself i would never want to, but when my bf and i did it, i liked it. just ask her, shes not going to be the one enicsheating it, you have to
I think I'm just gonna go with the whole "as much as we've joked around about it, I'm kinda curious thing." Yeah, definitely. Thanks for all the advice!
You seem very concerned about her feelings, which is totally great. But if she isn't concerned for your ie judging you/talking shit to her friends, then she isn't the right person to be with anyway. If she doesn't like the idea, she should just say that it isn't her thing. And if she does, everyone wins because of your good communication.
