ok so me and my girlfriend have been having sex for the last 4 months and out of all the times we have had sex she has only gotten soaking wet once. i have tried fingering and eating her out before sex, focusing mostly on the clit, also when i finger her she likes her g spot hit, at least i think its her g spot(maybe 2 inches in on the front of her body thats like a rough patch) anyways she has never cummed or had an orgasm and i want to know any tips on how to make this more pleasurable for her.
This is a tough one, you could try a cock ring. Then she gets both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Maybe you should ask her what you can do to make her have an orgasm. I hope you find a solution. If you don't mind me asking, how long have you two been dating?
why is it that when a post like this comes on here that others automatically assume that the girlfriend would know what it takes to get her to orgasm? dont you think its a bit stupid as surely if she did know then she would have done it already
if you got her really soaking wet once then she probably orgasmed, at least a bit that time. maybe she has trouble telling when she has an orgasm, i cant always tell ive had an orgasm if it wasnt that strong or if it was vaginal orgasm. Easiest way for a girl to orgasm during sex is usually on top and to grind, otherwise ive heard tongue and stuff. just keep experimenting, youll figure it out eventually
just get her to relax dude, and don't make her orgasm the golden goal, i'm sure she's having a good time anyway if not, just keep going, she'll gety there eventually!
try toys, any vibrating mechanism, try different positions until she finds one that she goes absolutely crazy in...and what sarahrei said about the dehydration. if none of that works or you cannot find the solution...well then truth be told some girls when they orgasm do not produce large amounts of fluid to where they will cum or squirt...I can say thankfully my wife is like a running faucet when she comes and that is just a bigger turn to keep the moment going....but I will say there are days when she is flat out dry like the desert
