How do you prevent teasing?

I'm a virgin, but I would like to partake in other sexual activities. However, I feel if I start doing anything with a guy (fingering, oral, etc.) it has to lead to sex, and if it doesn't I'm teasing? I don't really think there is anyway around thing at my age (19). When I was younger it was easier to deal with considering most people were virgins as well.

Anyone have any advice or opinions on this?

 

I don't think it is teasing. Atleast as long as you aren't the only one getting pleasure. Hunny I am a virgin and I am 20 years old. I just want my first time to be special and awesome.

 

with Rohypnol



I'll get me coat......

 

Just tell them at the get go you're all for everything else but he's not getting sex.

 

hahaha

 

This is quite simple, tell up front.

I've been with virgins who only gave oral and received but nothing more and I understood this.

 

I agree, either let the guy know what he can/can't expect.
Make him cum - this will definately help.

 

What you describe is in no way a tease situation. Not everything leads to sex, truely. If you rub his cock through his pants a lot but go no further, thats a tease...a fingering/bj is not teasing.