asphyxiation during sex? If so, do you like to be the one being choked or the one choking? Or both, in my case?
It's not a terribly uncommon thing. Not especially common, either, but there are a good number of folk who like it. It's one of the most dangerous fetishes out there. I took a human sex class, and apparently, people die every year by accidentally going too far. Be careful
[size=+2]Herb Baumeister [/size]Tally one for the family-man-by-day-gay-killer-by-night file. Herb Baumeister was the embodiment of the American dream. He built from scratch a chain of successful local thrift stores in Indianapolis and led a seemingly normal life as a husband and a devoted father of three. However, when police uncovered the remains of seven young gay men in the woods of Fox Hollow Farm -- the family's $1 million estate in the exclusive Indianapolis suburb of Westfield -- Herb's American dream was more like a murderous nightmare. In fact, Herb's wife of 20 years -- Julie -- had no idea of what Herb was all about. Every summer, while she and the kids went to Herb's mom's lakeside condo, he stayed behind "to work." A big fan of autoerotic asphyxia, Herb is suspected in as many as a dozen unsolved gay murders along the Indiana Interstate, and another dozen young gay men killed in Ohio and Indiana. ------------- this guy became a serial killer and murdered a bunch of people because of that fetish. (not saying that everyone who does it is a murderer.. its just a scary, very serious fetish).
Wow, I didn't really expect that kind of a response. Have you guys ever tried choking during sex? Not everyone takes it to an extent of even being close to dying...in fact in my experience there are very, very few people who take it that far. Well, just like with any fetish, there are people who dabble in it and people who are very hardcore with it. Lots of fetishes can turn into dangerous things.
This dude kind of put his hand on my neck once, but he didn't choke me... I thought it was kinda cool, though. More of a domination thing that trying to kill me...
I like asphyxiation. But, I like to be in control of it. I had one bf that did it to me and he was good about it, but it always scared me to let someone else do it to me. But, when I'm in control, I can take it as far as I want to. I had one guy nearly make me unconscious, but luckily I was able to pull away from him. That was scary. So, yeah, I like to be the one in control... But, I enjoy it.
