Here's my problem. I'm a bi man and I'm married and I haven't had a cock in a long time, 16 years. I crave it constantly and I can't get any. Part of the problem is that I'm in Iraq serving in the military and I'm a high ranking sergeant so cumming on to another soldier is not a good idea. So I can't get pussy, I can't go out looking for another guy, and I can't even get any gay or bi porn here. There is plenty of straight porn but none of what I'm craving for. So beside using my imagination there isn't much I can do. Is there anyway I can increase my bi expreince by myself. Also is there any Bi porn web sites like PornHub or Red Tube? They are kind of the porn version of You Tube, but they have no gay or bi porn on them. Not even a man beating off. So if anyone could help I'd greatly appreciate it, hell I'm even interested if any one wants to share personal pics.
thanks alot, but I have a hard time getting on the web because I have to use miltary computers and porn, especially gay porn is out of the question.
man, that sounds tough, sorry about that. unfortunately i dont have any advice. just sympathy. does your wife know you are bi?
I don't want to ruin your party, but... It occurs to me that if you get caught with pictures on a military computer, they'll go after the people in the pictures after they finish with you. So please remember that you could be endagering anyone who sends pictures, etc. Bottom Bottom
Believe me the army will not go any further than me if I got caught. Besides if it is sent to my email and i can save them to a thumb drive and open them later on a personal computer I'm golden. Can you tell I thought about it?
Yes, I can tell. However, having been in the IT field for a while, there are things you have not thought about. Keystroke Loggers? Monitors? Temporary Internet files saved to a protected directory? I could list about 12 others... Bottom line from Bottom: be very, very careful. Bottom
how could u lie to ur wife who loves u shes at home worried and waiting working hard and what not and here u are talkin about how u would liek to come on to another soldier and how u wanan look at some nakid picks dont u think it would crush her if she were to read what u have just written i tryed to feel some simpathy being bi myself but i couldnt ever betray the trust of some one who loved me. u sicken me filthy pig
OK, I am a bi man who was with a woman for 18 years. I am a very candid and honest person and before we really started getting involved I told her I was bi. Turns out she was very understanding, her fav brother was gay. So, I didn't lie to my wife. Nor did I tell her about the times I went out with the boys - she would rather not know. I am put off by the bi guys who aren't upfront with their significant others. But I understand it. I think most men understand male sexuality and a few women, like my wife do but a lot take judgmental attitude like you dark sugar, and that puts me off more than a guy not being honest with his wife. I particularly don't like when ppl make an assumption about someone else based on NOTHING. You don't know that his wife is worried, waiting or working hard. He said his secret is that he's bi so you don't know that his wife would mind him looking at naked pictures (I subscribed to Playboy and Playgirl when I was married). The fact is other than him saying "my secret" you know nothing about his relationship with his wife and yet you made all these assumptions to the point of calling him a filthy pig. This based on fact: You sicken me Dark Sugar.
wow! It's not that serious dude and besides worry about yourself. I'm just looking to cum man. Nothing more than that.
no w/e its not right to lie to any one like that even if she doesent care he should still tell the truth and the fact that he doesent is discusting in my oppinon and im alowed to have that. if he was just daiting some girl it wuld be different but thaire married
ok ok maby i was kind wrong in my statement erlier its just that i know that if i were in a realtionship with some one and they werent upfront with me about thaire sexuality and they werent faithfull to me and they just wanted to cum i would be really hurt so to see this just upsets me a grate deal. i just dont think its right and isint that the point of this sight to post ones ideas to topics presented.
No one faults u for ur opinion, the fault was presenting your value judgment in such harsh terms. (name calling) I like young guys. Some ppl think that is disgusting (yeah, I made it with a 20-year-old. That's a 40-year age spread). I'm the first to call myself a dirty old man but that is with a smilie. I wouldn't care for someone else in seriousness to call me a dirty old man or a cradle robbing pig and tell me how much I disgust them. So, we can let our displeasure with others be known, but it should be done with a little tact. (Note: "Tact" is really just another word for lie, but we all gotta compromise our principles sometime to be social)
Well, I think there are exceptions to the rule sometimes. For me, I hadn't had any bicurious thoughts up until this year. And my wife and I have been together in total for the last 7 years. Before that, I haven't had the slightest interest in guys up until a couple of months ago. So do you think that after all this time, and kids, I should just come out and say something to her? I think that would be devistating for her to comprehend. Not to mention a huge blow to her female ego. So I think announcing something like that for me would be more harmful than good.
You're right dark sugar. I'm so sickened right now. Not becuase of the bi - he was forthcoming but this - things he's said here. that he didn't tell me. That he wasn't honest with. I've been used, lied to and cheated on. 14 years down the drain. He's called me vicious names before, been horrible to me and I hung in there. And now, this is what I get. I'm not a bad person I swear to you I'm not.
Shale, you're wrong. You can have your "tough" atttitude but you don't know all the facts. You only know a tiny bit. Sugar, woman's intuition? Probably. You're right on. Now, I have some serious decisions to make. I've also completely supported this man for years. We live in a 700k home; he doesn't work. I've asked little of him and now this. It stinks.
