guys. what was your first homosexual experiance like?

No pun intended, but you're screwed...

 

I'm good but I wish i were screwed
besides what do you mean Iraq is beautiful.

 

You'd be surprised how hard it is for a big muscular black guy like myself to find someone to suck and fuck - here in L.A.

 

really, i love chocolate. any pic of the dark suger

 

alright man I'm out for the day. If anyone wants to trade some pics or whatever let me know. I'm open for anything.

 

this post goes to dabla. i won't go into my first time, because i've never had a girlfriend, so it doesnt fit your situation.
But let me tell you about when i was someone else's first. He was in a 3 yr relationship w/ a girl, had never cheated on her, except with me.
So i think his story can help you out more.
I just graduated college, but this all started when i was a freshman in college. he and i were at the same university on the other side of the country from our home town in texas. we knew each other only by reputation (we both were in speech and debate teams of our seperate highschools). but when we recognized each other we would just hang out w/ his other str8 friends. he loved charming girls as i recall.
this guy is hot. full lips, black hair, and an unavoidable bulge. it was always hard to not look at it. so late in the year, he invites me to his bday gettogether. after alot of alcohol everyone goes home and he says i can sleep over cus i had a long travel. "i'm just gonna take off my pants, i hope you dont mind he says" i didn't object.
he was wearing briefs. so i had to ask how big he was and he said 8" and thick. and got into bed, a bit later he mumbles, "ugh i'm so drunk"
me, "how drunk"
"very drunk"
me, "drunk enough to let me see your 8?"
him, "not that drunk." one minute later, "ok" and he pulled down the briefs and said "but you got to get it hard to see the full 8." he was too drunk to get hard, but woke up very early and was jerking off, as he was about to cum he reached back, grabbed my hand and put it around his cock so i could finish the job. and i did. Afterward we barely hung out.
Then exactly one year later we hung out again but at the apartment of one of his friends.
everyone went to bed and me and him had to sleep on the mattress in the living room, again we had a deep convo and my heart was beating because of how close our bodies were. he said he could hear my heart, so i put his hand on my chest to feel it. i put my hand on his chest and he took my hand and slid it down his body.. his pants were unzipped, and he was hard. he was afraid of someone coming out but when he said he was close i wrapped my lips firmly about his shaft to make sure i swallowed every drop and he loved it.
Afterwards, again we didnt hang out much. then the next school year he came to my place complaining about girl troubles, i was laying on my bed and he was sitting on it. then completely out of the blue he throws one leg over my body, sits on my crotch and plants his lips on mine. That was the first time we ever kissed. i pulled down his pants and started to suck him off, but he had to stop it mid way and go talk to his gf, he said he needed to end it with her. the next time i saw him was the year after that
he came to my new place and i was serving him wine, he came from behind me and wrapped his arms around me, turned me around and started kissing me, we went to my bed and i began the usual, he was completely naked now. he again stopped me before he could come, looked right into my eyes and said , "i want you to fuck me." and i did.
That's the last time i saw him. that was about 2 years ago.
it was never that he was horny, it wasn't that i was manipulative, there was just chemistry there that he didn't understand so couldn't embrace it.

so to you, dabla, i say take your time, i was his first gay experience. You can only know what you feel, and what you don't feel, and the only way to know for sure is to test the waters. The guy is actually straight now he says,
but maybe next time i'll tell you about the guy who thanks me for making him bi.

 

Very intriguing story... Got me hard just listening to it. But there's one minor detail you left out in that entire story. What went on when you two fucked? You left out all of the juicy details. What positions were you in, and how did each of you finish?

 

Thanks everyone for your stories. especially hijoDdios, they were very helpful.

 

Looking forward to more stories.... Bring them on!!!

 

My First Experience With Another Man Was Masturbation, Then He Masturbated Me And I Masturbated Him. Then We Did A 69 (sucking Eachothers Dick). While I Fingered His Ass And He Fingered Mine. Then I Put On A Condom And Fucked Him. It Felt Great.

 

I almost came close a couple of days ago. I posted a craigslist ad, and a guy that works and lives in my area responded. We tried hooking up the same day I posted, but he flaked. Then we tried again the very next day. We went to the local mall to give it a try in one of the department store bathrooms, but we both got too nervous because of the cleaning people in the woman's restroom. It was the most discrete restroom of all of them in the mall, and it was perfect, but we didn't want to risk the cleaner coming in and hearing us. We both kind of stood there wondering what the next plan of action was, so we said that we'd meet each other outside of the store, but I figured that since we didn't have a backup plan, and it was still daytime, we just go our separate ways...

That's too bad too, because I had/have an 8 day load that I really wanted to give to a guy instead of my wife. She was on the rag this week, so I though that was the perfect opportunity for me to experience my first guy, but I guess it didn't happen. I was totally pursuing it too with no reservations.

The other black swinger couple I met is cool and all, and they're even full time nudists when I visit, but he doesn't come off as a bottom, and he looks very masculine, so maybe that's what's preventing me from getting it on with them. We tried with a few drinks and watched a little porn, but I can't get aroused in front of people, except for those that I'm already intimate with, or at my desk alone feeling really horny. We went upstairs to their room, but wound up talking while they shared a little 420 between themselves. They were getting pretty loopy after a while, which was perfect, because I saw a calmer side of them that I found attractive in both of them, but by the time things were loosening up for me, I had to leave and come home to the wife and kids, since my 3 hours with them were already up... I guess one of these days it will happen with the right person...

 

It was when I was 14. He was 19. We sucked and jacked each other. He rimmed me, but wanted me to fuck him. It was very hot.

 

That sounds hot... Do tell.

 

My First experiance was when I was either 10 or 11.
At the time I had no feelings for boys or girls at all, and then one day I was around my friends house, and his mom started talking about his cousin, she walked out, and him and his sister started whispering, this lead on to the fact that he told me he and his sister had had sex with his male cousin. About two to three weeks later we were in my bedroom, and I saw him sitting there and suddenly got really horny (new feeling) and asked him what him and his cousin did, he told me and then randomly I asked if we could try it (I didn't know any better, these feelings were new) and right there and then he got naked and we put our bodies together and started kissing. We didn't fuck, but i remember it was hot. Everytime he came over we used to jack each other off. Lay next to each other naked. This carried on for a year, when Finally I slept around his and I sucked him off for the first time. Loved every moment of it, but he didn't cum, and never did when I sucked him off, and I wish he did cos I want to know the taste. Finally deeper into my puberty I used to get stronger urges, and we would french kiss and stuff. And then he fucked me.

That was ages ago, and he moved away, never seen him since, never had a gay experiance either.
Although he was my first ever sexual experiance, I am soley Bisexual, but lean towards guys.

 

that was a sweet story

 

Care to share a little more detail other than just saying that "he fucked me"?

...How did it start?
...Who did what?
...Where was the money shot done?
...And so on, and so on, and so on.

 

Sorry, I am so new to this, and have released little detail as I have NEVER told anyone else about my sexuality, I am in the closet *woo*. And all my friends are straight, some lesser friends are extremely homophobic which sucks

How did it start: I explained it
Who did what: It was my initial idea after I overheard a slight conversation regarding him and his cousin having sex when he went to his cousins (no idea what they did). I asked him if he wanted to try some stuff (I had just started puberty, I had no idea what to do ) So we would strip and lay next to each other, touching, kissing etc. Went on for a year, when I first performed oral sex, and vice versa.
And the general fucking, wasn't proper, but he was on his back and I sat on top of his cock, not for long, but it was fun ^ ^. I regret not doing more. And I still class my self as a virgin, because I was never penetrated, and I have never penetrated another male or female.

Life is confusing for me, as posting publicly is the first step for me

 

That's too bad... I still have yet to make that jump to man on man action. Most of the people I've encountered have been really pushy and anxious about getting together, they flake, or they're not what I find attractive. But at this point, I'm in no real rush to make this happen. When it happens it'll happen. I just hope there is a lot of foreplay before it happens, instead of getting right to it.

 

I agree, I am only young yet, but foreplay is hot, and in my opinion makes your connection to your partner that much more special. I am in no rush, but I cant wait to fall in love with that special someone

 

I'm married to a woman, so the falling in love part of it will never happen with a guy. Especially when I like pussy better. But I think it would only add to the sexual attraction to a guy if there is foreplay involved.