high yalll... im back.. kinda. my best girl got busted a couple weeks ago by some bitchy police manssss.. and she got a drug possession charge and paraphanalia charge. she knows she probably going to lose her license for at least six months and she's gonna be on probation and have to drop.. the first few days after she was really good on being sober and being cool around other people who were smoking. but then she smoked.. with me, and now i feel guilty. but then she said she's start making it a daily thing, like, she'd wake up in the morning and decide if it was day she was going to smoke. she wasnt going to buy weed.. just let people smoke her up.. but like stoners do.. she fell back into calling people with pot, just to smoke.. shes always been such a buzz chaser and its always pissed me off. i told her from the beginning that if she was willing to try then i was going to help her but if she didn't try i wouldn't help. you cant help those who dont help themselves. now shes at the point where she's convinced that all she needs to do is get a detox kit and everything will be better.. her boyfriend and i keep trying to talk her into being better than this but shes obviously doesnt help. granted.. i smoke around her.. all our friends are pot heads.. the other day she talked to me about having respect for my body. and today i asked her how she could even talk to me about respect for ones body when she has no respect for herself. its along the same lines. she even told me today that she has no self control. but she's really doing nothing about it. she'll get to being by herself and she'll need to call someone with weed.. and i just feel sorry for her. and i cant get her realize what she is doing is only fucking her over. you'd think that losing her license and the hundreds of dollars she going to spend in court costs would be reason enough to just give up smoking for a few months to piss clean. what should i do fellow stoners? i think i'll go smoke a doob and think it over... any thoughts?
i think you need to smack a bitch also you have the greatest sig picture i have ever seen, my life is complete
you can lead a horse too water... but you can't make it drink. people have to make those sort of decisions for themselves. and they have to live with the consequences of their actions.
i will leave you the info that i went through, when i got my paraphanalia we got a court date in the mail that said when we had to go, personally i kept smoking because i wanted to enjoy it while i could ( because I thought i was going to be on probation for a year like other friends ) so when my court date came, i quit and got clean just incase they did test me in there and they never even did, when i went there i had to go to drug counciling and they only test if you look fucked up in it
hmm besides telling her that she needs to do the right thing and what ever, you cant really do anything else. shell probably have to have a big consequence before she learns. also its her life if she wants to mess it up, its her choice all you can do is be there to pick up the pieces. but at the same time it does not like shes doing besides smoking on probation, which everybody does. however if its alot more than that correct me.
hmm.. she doesnt seem to care about the consequences and i cant make her care either. i just cant get over how she cant respect herself like that? she has no respect for anyone actually.. maybe thats why she doesnt think about what shes putting her parents through or how shitty she's making me and others feel. i know that my smoking around her wont help but i dont really smoke with her if its just one on one.. because no one wants to smoke alone.. i guess she doesnt realize that pot is actually illegal.. even though we all believe it isn't... but i didnt fuck my shit up.. im not going to court i'll smoke till i die.
