I know this sounds awful and it's a shame on me so with that being said I'm curious about this married chick that I work with. She started working in my area of this company about 2 or 3 months ago. We really hit it off and she began flirting heavy and giving me these "looks" where she stands there and just stares. all of this went on then all of a sudden I was out for about 3 days and when I came back she was totally different she quit walking out with me and quit comming over to where I work. She says that it's because there are "too many people " as we hired on about 4 temps to work for a few weeks in the office. However I still feel she is into me . How do I know if she just likes the attention or if there is something more? Please folks I need some advice here before I make a fool out of myself if she isn't interested or get in over my head if she is. She also has 3 kids. Please I need all comments and suggestions. Thank you!
I would say from this little information that you are lucky that she apparently has cooled in her flirting. Fact: she is a MARRIED WOMAN - therefore unavailable. It could be that she saw the error of her ways and took your absence to make it right. She may have realized that as a MARRIED WOMAN she cannot flirt with co-workers. At any rate, you would be wise to drop any notion of doing the MARRIED WOMAN, and move on. Please don't take me as condescending. As a twenty-something I had an affair with a MARRIED WOMAN. Luckily I survived my youth - neither she nor I got murdered by an enraged HUSBAND.
The thing is she mentioned that she is thinking about leaving her husband and I know this is terriable but I just have such deep feelings for her. I have let her know how I feel so I guess I should leave the ball in her court if she deciedes to persue this further? Thanks for your help and you are correct!
Hey... my opinion in this matter...since ive had a friend fall for a married man ... it did not turn out well because no matter what the feelings were...he would not leave his wife... emotions change as do feelings... You can very well leave the ball in her court so to speak... but I wouldnt act on your feelings until things are finalized...to ensure that they are mutually felt and truthfully from the heart... Therefore as much as it hurts to think about her and how you feel its terrible wanting to sleep with her...the best thing to do ... is to be prepared for nothing to happen...and do as Shale has mentioned... try to move on (easier said than done i know) and try and find someone who will share their feelings of love and amour with you!! Best of Luck =)
I asume that you are right it's just we a re a perfect match and I don't know if she is just enjoying the attention or is really interested. I know I'm an idiot but I really care about her.
