I'm 17 and have received from a few guys, but I've never been able to cum. I've had it done for half an hour straight, and still nothing. It feels really nice and I love it, but I really wish I could orgasm from it. In fact, I've never had a clitoral orgasm at all from a guy...only gspot from fingering and sex. I think it's because I like extremely specific things. I rub my clit somewhat from the side, and with a certain amount of pressure. By myself, I could probably come from about 10 minutes of consistent rubbing, but I like to prolong masturbation so it usually takes 30-60 minutes. With a vibrator, it can take minutes. Are all the guys that have gone down on me just bad, have they not done it long enough, or is my body just too picky? I REALLY want to orgasm this way. Does anyone have any tips on what my boyfriend should try?
quite possibly they were/are inexperienced AND you are a bit picky. thirty minutes is a looong enough time. only if I wish to prolong oral sex do I continue that long; otherwise, I just speed up, increase tongue pressure and do specific things I know she/they like(s) me to do when I go for finishing it. (I tend to prolong it though I looove cunnilingus) most of the time it's simply a matter of knowing eachother.
mix things up a little... when he`s down there licking you- pass him the vibe and direct him to take turns between his tongue and the vibe maybe this will help make it easier and break the cycle of not being able cum from oral.
That sounds like a good idea, but vibrators desensitize me too much. If I use one, I'm numb to other forms of stimulation for at least a few hours, so I only use toys as a quick fix. I feel like he either uses too much or too little pressure. If he uses the perfect amount, he can never keep it up long enough for me to cum. I'm going to try to get him to suck on my clit. I think that may work.
