New and want to get perspective....

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by confused_21, Jul 3, 2008.

  1. confused_21

    confused_21 Member

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    Hey, I'm a 22 year old male whose always been attracted to men, I've just never acted on it...but anyway I think I'm ready. I just want to get the perspectives and stories of other people on how they got to being comfortable with themselves....you can hit me up on my myspace, send me a message or something about what you did when you came out and how people reacted.

    http://www.myspace.com/thefinessemusicgroup
     
  2. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    i know this isnt what you're looking for, but when you are comfortable you should check out Blakes and the Wet Bar...
     
  3. confused_21

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    Thanks, I just might :)
     
  4. Blinky

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    Dude, I'm going to give you some advice that you probably won't follow because you can't control what your heart wants - don't fall in love with confused bi/curious guys who publicly say that they are straight - you will be setting yourself up for a big fall.
     
  5. confused_21

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    wow sounds like you've had experience in that department?
     
  6. Blinky

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  7. confused_21

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    oh wow, that's deep....I know it's easier said then done but leave that guy alone! You deserve someone who treats you like a gem. Someone whose not ashamed to grab your hand and kiss you in public or take your around to meet their friends and say hey guys this is my BOYFRIEND! You know? And that person IS out there for you and it's not him! You don't want to be someone's dirty little secret for the rest of your life do you?
     
  8. Blinky

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    Dude, I'm not trying to take up space on your thread with my issue - but it's pretty complicated i can tell you that - love is pretty crazy
     

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