Question about when to call someone.

So suppose you have been talking to this girl a little bit for a while, and there is some attraction there, and the feeling is mutual maybe even more than that, who am I to say though. Anyway we talk quite often over the internet, though recently it has come to my attention that she will not be around for about 3 weeks. Should I call her after like two weeks or something just to say hi and maybe set up some sort of date, or leave her be until she comes back?

 

Why would you want to wait that long to call her?

 

Well she is on vacation, and it's not like we talk on the phone all the time, it's usually AIM, but obviously she can't get to a computer, but before she left, she said she wanted to talk to me again soon.

 

Oh okay I get it. I thought you were just being shy about calling a girl.

Well, it's really up to you and either way's fine I think - but I'm leaning more heavily toward calling her earlier rather than waiting for her to come back.

 

call her, if she's into you she'll be thrilled, if not, you'll be able to tell pretty quickly. Call though, girls loved to be called. Besides, what if she's sitting around right now wondering when you're going to call?