What about me isnt attractive?

i just cant get anywhere at all in pubs etc, i pride myself on my personality but i dont know what it is about me that people fin dso unattractive, is it just a weight thing?

im only giving 2 options because if you vote you feel one way or the other..if you dont, dont vote!

also PLEASE give reasons why you dont, its so i can try and improve myself...ta

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I voted not attractive and here is why:

1) I don't know if you are male or female (I'm assuming male).

2) Your hair doesn't look good. I'd suggest going to a nice salon and have a professional style it.

3) Are you fat? Even if you are fat it is ALWAYS better to wear clothes that fit you. It actually makes you look less fat. Wear clothes that fit.

 

I don't know why you think people find you unattractive? It isn't a very clear photo, but I think you are attractive. Your hair could do with a cut, the style doesn't suit you. And the shirt you are wearing does nothing for you. What kind of personality do you have? Because to me, that is very important.

 

I think you are pretty cute londonrocker. I love your hair it is very sexy.

 

i dont think ur atractive cause of ur photo and the way u dress like it looks like you dont care about ur apperence so why should i. i understand being kinda husky its hard to find stuff that looks good especially in warm weather but an effort must be made

 

your weight is fine, you just dont appear to put any effort into dressing. you are probably cute too. just glamour up a bit and feel pretty and others will think you are gorgeous

 

Maybe he was getting ready for bed?

 

looks like a pretty normal guy to me...:cheers2:

 

Sorry if you get offended by this but I laughed a little cuz my mom always gets pissed when I link hair styling with homosexuality(We're a pretty ignorant little place so its a little more noticed).

 

Still don't know if the OP is male or female??

 

He's male; thought you were attracted to both anyway?

Maybe take clearer picture man; if you've got extra weight, it's not that bad. Most pick-up successes are a matter of confidence

 

I am but that wasn't the point of my question.

The problem is that to me their gender is ambiguous and therefore that is unattractive.

 

I've been considering hairstyling as a profession.

But I used to be bisexual so.

(And I don't mean I'm gay now, mmkay. )

 

Lose some weight, at the same time gain muscle, don't just lose weight, gain muscle while losing weight.

Additionally, your hair style is very, very lame, Flock of Seagulls were popular for 2 weeks.

 

i dont mind guys who are a little bit bigger, but your shirt size should match your body. if i were giving you a makeover, i would give you a bigger shirt and change your hair. the hair just looks like you're trying too hard. i love long hair, but i cant stand it when guys have long bangs covering half their face.

 

I think you look like the dude from The White Stripes.

 

First off....try to meet girls somewhere other than a pub....like the clothing store when your picking out your new wardrobe...cologne is the next step...I prefer Polo Black or Nautica (no matter what...if you smell good SOMEONE will like you) this doesnt mean you dont have to shower....shower at least once a day. collared shirts are the way to go (commonly refered to as "polo shirts" around here)....dont go out in some emo band T-shirt and expect girls to be pulling your pants down left and right...your not a rockstar. Cut your hair....some girls like long hair, but if your overweight and not muscled up it is usually a bad thing to have long hair. (i rock a ceasar "number 2 clippers on the side and fade to fingerlength up top" you can wear it up or down or just bangs up) Last but not least....confidence...got to be confident but not cocky...

thats worked for me thus far....not saying its for everyone...but for the kind of places i frequent it works.

 

I think the weight is the main problem. I recommend taking up a sport. It'll boost your confidence, help you lose weight and you'll be healthier overall. And make sure to eat right.

 

yeah sports are good and u can meet new people that way....... did i spell meet wrong?

 

lol @ 5 people who felt bad and wanted to boost some confidence by voting "attractive".