The other day my new gf said she would like it if I f***ed her brains out three times a week. As I said, we are new and at that point we had had no sexual experience with each other. She seems to feel that for her this is very important. She also explained that penetration is critical for her and when I stimulated her manually to orgasm I noticed that I could find no clitoris and working outside the vagina only had moderate results. She was unusually active inside. That's just background. I'm more of a loving lover with no difficulty bringing a gal to orgasm (manually). And I think she might come to appreciate that (as have past gf's), but right now I think I need to do what she's expecting. I've never "f***ed anyone's brains out". I get the feeling she wants that the next time we get together. I want to be prepared. So what do you think she might have in mind? I'm pretty sure she wants me to talk dirty, but I'm not sure how to do that. Until I met her, I basically never used profanity. How do I learn this? And how do I learn about what else she has in mind when she says she wants me to f-h-b-o? (Yes, I know I can ask and I will if I can, but I suspect we won't get the chance to talk about that until that night which will give me little chance to prepare.) Suggestions?
Fairly certain she just means she wants it hard and fast, don't think i need to explain to you how to do that..about dirty talking, maybe whilst your licking her ear, whisper something like "I'm going to fuck you so hard" or something similar, does the job for my girlfriend, keep it simple generally, or say something cheesy if she has a sense of humour for a giggle.
What also seems to work is whispering the sexual act you are performing on her at the time. Describing both your genitalia using plenty of verbs and adjectives - being manly and forceful about it. Lick her armpits, put her entire ear in your mouth and tongue it, and maybe suck on her toes and in between them. That'll get her going for sure.
My two cents: Look at yourself as a primitive cave-man somewhere in the African bush, ready to mount your mate. Let your hormones pump through your body. Forget all culture and all social rules. Think primitive, think ancient man and woman performing an age old ritual. Then, when you're fully erect, enter her and slightly dominate her. Keep her down and start thrusting slowly. Don't talk. Look at her intensely, and pump up the tempo. Use your full hands to grab her. Grab her firmly, her buttocks, her arms, lick her tits. Don't just "cuddle" her. Grab her and squeeze her, like you are saying "this bush woman is mine, I am copulating with her." Okay. So just think you are a primitive man, half-ape half human. Don't treat her gently. Treat her like a real man treats a woman. Bring out the dog in you.
Hey I think you guys are right you do have to attack your women like some wild animal without inflicting any harm or pain, women want their man to be a man, not some wimpy coward. So lunge at her (slight fear factor) and devour her passionately and gentley - is that possible ?
Just be in charge, I like that with a guy too. Making love gets so boring after awhile, and for me if the guy goes too slow it eventually doesn't feel like anything.
i liked that ape man speech thing i agree with that, if i said i wanted someone to "f*** my brains out* id usually mean hard fast and dominant. like throw on bed pin down and screw, maybe spank and bite a bit
Don't forget to slap her ass, caveman loved to do that. And grunt a lot as well. Separate note, try fucking her up against the wall, I get the feeling your girl would like that.
I think she means just fuck her really hard, I like JohnShlong's description, even if he is a bit weird about it. And Professor Z or X (I always forget his name, sorry) My husband is the same, loving and slow, which is nice, but it gets so frustrating sometimes! Just fuck her hard and primitive, and be a bit dirty about it. Dominate and be the one in charge, make her feel like she drives you crazy and you can't control yourself and you have to have her. But not so out of control you are too quick about it if you know what I mean
