A Question for Bisexuals

I go through phases, but often I am like Mrreal4two,

If I really get into a guy, then shortly after I'll be really hot for a girl, usually within the hour. It's been such a mysterious part of my sexuality, I'm really glad that someone else is like that too!

 

I'm male and bi. I seem to go through weeks where i'm attracted to both. But then on a cycle of every 3-4 weeks i just crave and want cock, no else but cock. I look for it every where i go, and seem to look for it more a night, until i'm statisfied.

 

I am not into putting a meter to this question, or apply a percentage to which gender I prefer... I have found interesting mixtures of lovable character traits which are generally seen as typically male in women, as well as female traits in men. To me, as to other previous posters, the main aspect of attraction (be it the nice and butterflies-in-the-belly feeling of falling deeply in love or the hormonal, sweet and heavily-perfumed sexual urge) is the human being I am facing, not the gender of him/her.

If the mutual chemistry fits, the feelings I have for a person remain the same - as well as the sensuality, warmth and tenderness exchanged. Of course, there are definite variations on a sexual level... anyone can relate to that simply by laying your head in a woman's lap, and then into a man's lap. There is clearly a difference between the two. And having sex differs between making love to a woman or a man, too. That is just a fact of the different blueprints by which male and female bodies are built.

When fantasizing about having sex (which I do, as everyone does, while masturbating) I have my fantasies about women and men I have been with as well as dream men and women, so to speak. Sometimes it is about being with either of them alone, or in a very intense group-cuddling situation leading to more than mere hugs and caresses.

So, I can't really say, which side I tend to prefer... I am more like walking on the middle lane, looking to both sides equally - and happily enjoying any encounters with people who happen to walk that middle lane together with me.

Lots of love (now that Spring has sprung for real),

:hug: :daisy: :rainbow:

~*Ganesha*~

 

Well for me, it kind of depends on the person.
I mean, I guess I like boys a little more then girls, but it’s hard to say.

 

I go throught phases sometimes, but sexually guys rule, and love with girls <3

 

Depends on the guy or girl but overall the same. - I think girls more then guys but it just depends on my mood and weather they are straight or gay - hard to tell which i prefer more (guys or girls that is)

 

I usually feel pretty gender neutral about who I'm attracted too...but there are deff times when I crave just woman or just men for short periods of time.

 

same here, but he still gets in trouble for it from time to time...haha
hypocritical, i know, but i think it's funny, he never says anything to me about doing it....

 

I alternate between the two. I admire both sexes pretty much all the time, but I'll for months at a time where all I think about is women. hen, something switches and all I think about are guys.

 

Guys: Purely sexual, not attracted to the guy per say. I'm more attracted to their penis. lol
Girls: Both physical, and emotional. I love the feminine form, and the sweetness most women have.
MTF transgender: Combines the best of both worlds
FTM: Not really my thing... Nothing against them, I'm just not attracted to them.

 

I'm currently in the 'dick phase'...I've been thinking about a nice cock in my mouth or ass everyday for the past three months! I like pussy too but I'm really bored with it, especially after the TERRIBLE lay I had a few days ago with this lame girl..........just reminded me that girls don't know how to properly suck a thick cock

 

Definitely phases. While I never lose attraction to either sex, I often find myself thinking about one more than the other.

 

im not gonna lie i thought that maybe i was goin through phases but ikt turns out that im attracted to different features in both sexs....for instance a female knows what a fmale likes and a male has that sort of safety about him..i understand the question but its very different in people
=]

 

i agree with you...and honestly everything...ou just said is sooo true
=]

 

How about this? A man who acts like a man in public, but like a woman in the bedroom.
That's how I've always described myself in personals...

Bottom

 

im usually attracted to both sexes consitantly. unless i think i've found someone special then i dont even think about any other guy or girl as a crush and i dont think about doing anything with them. like right now...it a guy.

 

I actually envy Bi people at times , it facinates me how they can respond to both a male and a female....no matter how hard i have tried , males just dont hold a sexual interest for me.
Y'all Bi souls are very fortunate !

 

You are Not missing Anything Special Darling...

 

Hmm yeah I do! But the difference is very little. I consider myself bisexual although I know inside that I am gay =P It's because sometimes but rarely I do get turned on by girls but most of the time its the meat not the salad

 

Relationship-wise, it's just females I'm into.

But sexually, both guys and girls do it for me, and I do go through phases. I'm in total "guy" mode right now...