Hi, i have this fantasy about j/o together with another guy, anybody else have this or is it just me?
I've thought about it for a long time -would be nice to watch porn together and then see what happens when we are both too horny to keep our pants zipped
I doubt there's many guys (or girls as well, for that matter) who don't at least fantasise about mutual masturbation with members of their own sex -especially in adolescent years. In earlier years this has absolutely no bearing on sexuality as it's nothing more than exploring all the changes that are happening to the body & sharing the learning process together. However, even so there is no such thing as Gay or Straight, just different levels of Bi, and with so much homophobia still being spread throughout our culture, even in this day & age, even the natural urges to try such things can be quite scary at this early stage. Basically you should just go with your feelings. Don't be afraid to discuss it with friends you know & trust, and you'll probably be pleasantly surprised to find that you are by no means alone - in fact the chances are you could end up living out a few of your fantasies together for real. This doesn't mean that you are Gay - nor does it mean that you're Straight. It means that you're perfectly normal.
