orry for the long post: I know this chick who's pretty cute, interesting personality etc. but there's no great chemistry between us. Plus I had a girlfriend when I met her and I also used to date one of her good friends. I'm about to leave the country for a fairly long time and I was trying to see all my friends one last time before I go. She can't make it, but that's understandable; she lives a good day's drive away. Anyway, last night around midnight she calls me and this is our convo to the best of my recollection: Her: Am I calling too late? Me: No, it's fine. What's up? Her: Look, we need to talk about our friendship. Me: We do? Her: Yeah. I mean, i don't know what to do about it. There's just...the way you look at me...you challenge me like no one else does, and, uh...I feel like you'd date me if you could...now that I'm with someone, I don't feel right...I mean, I love you, I think about you alot.... when you get back, I really want to see you...Is that OK? Me: Is what OK? I don't know what you're trying to tell me. Her: I don't know either, it's just... promise me we'll be friends. Me: Uh, OK. Afterward I told one of our mutual friends this. She rolled her eyes and said "She's just afraid of your c0ck, that's all. You've always been a strongly sexual presence to her and she can't handle it". How do you guys take this?
