So, I got an interesting one here guys! Anyway, my little brother is the definition of a very masculine, manly man. He played Varsity football all four years of high school as a center. That's the position where the guy holds the football between his legs and hikes it to the quarterback. Anyway, he's a big guy with a beard, wears blue jeans, drives a truck, probably weighs about 240 pounds. He's not ugly by any means, but c'mon he's my little brother, I feel weird saying that he's cute or good looking - but he is. He's a classic bear though - although he has been working out a lot lately. Actually, that's what I was going to get to. First of all, I'm not writing this thread because I have an attraction to my little brother in any way. I'm writing this because my brother is a 24 year old male, in the sexual prime of his life, should basically be wanting to have sex all the time - and hasn't had a girlfriend since high school and would actually prefer spending a lot more time impressing and hanging out with his incredibly cut and bearish friend, who is a closet bisexual. My brother says he's straight, but there hasn't been a girl in sight for 6 years. I would know if he had something on the side. It's just weird because the only one that is in sight is his friend that's a guy that also says he's straight but I know for a fact is a closet bisexual. I know this because I've had direct contact with the guys that my brother's friend has hit on. Also, I've hooked up with his brother, so I know homosexuality runs in his family - and in mine. My brother never started working out heavily till a couple years ago and it's always when that guy,m the bi guy, comes into town. Also when the bi guy comes to town my brother puts special shampoos and body zit cleanser in the shower which he never has body zit cleanser when that guy isn't here. Also, when that guy comes to town, my brother and him go on "fishing" trips alone together and he only started bringing back fish when my dad and I complained that he should bring some back for us. If you're laughing right now I know what you're thinking and no, this is not Brokeback Mountain! Anyway, I'm just saying that for a couple of STRAIGHT guys who are in the sexual primes of their lives, there sure aren't any girls around. Don't you think that biology would have taken over by now and they would have gone after some girls instead of going fishing alone. I mean, I'm 28 and if I were 24 and him right now, I'd be going crazy! So what do you guys think is going on here? Gay or no gay?
And you are telling us this because you believe gay men can't be very masculine, manly men? Anyway what a topic! I agree with you that it does sound a little suspicious that he doesn't appear to be banging a chick. But maybe he is? How would you know for absolute certainty that he isn't? Hmmm, and looking good for the bi guy....Just judging from what you have told us I'd say there is a high chance your brother is gay or at the least bisexual. Ask him again!
Dude, yeah right. I can't just ask him - he's already told me he's straight and his friend has already professed to me that he's straight - although in confidence while kind of drunk his friend did admit to me that he pretty much was bi. It's weird and conflicted, but the bottom line is that I can't ask him/them without being rude and nosy.
Do a spy mission and find out. Sneak along on a "fishing trip". Careful, you might catch a sight of your bros hairless nuts with that trout!
Your brother sounds like a complete homo. Are you gay and if so, does he know? How does he feel about homosexuality? Maybe you should just follow them on one of their "fishing trips" (and yeah - it was pretty funny. I thought of Brokeback Mountain when you mentioned that ). If not...I don't know. Maybe just be patient, or talk to his bi friend and get the truth out of him.
Okay, and is your family aware that you are gay? Are they all comfortable with it? Just wondering if you actually read my post or not -_-*
Okay - Okay - I'll come clean - I'm referring to thread http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=287606 But this thread wasn't really meant to focus on me
Hello There My Names John Aka Jj and I'm verrrry new to this site but i was looking something up on google and I Just happened to fall on to this site and read your story about u being gay and your wondering weather your brother is gay or not so i felt you needed a freind right now so I Thought oh what the heck i'll join this site and see what its all about and Here I Am lol. Anyways are you on facebook or or youtube and where are you from Mate? I'm from London,England and I'm 24 JJ X
Whatever your little bro may be in terms of his sexual orientation, you should keep out of it. He says, he is str8. Take it for granted. If he wanted to come out to you, he would do that. He may have his reasons for staying in closet, and you should really go an extra mile and respect that. Your being openly gay notwithstanding, his sexual life is his business only. KD