Too sensitive for cunnilingus...advice pease?

Hi all. I'm frustrated. Everywhere I go I'm always reading/hearing about how women experience their greatest pleasure through oral sex. I don't, and I'm pretty sure it's something about me, not the fine men who have tried. I can only climax by manually stimulating myself (during intercourse or alone.) I think I might just be too sensitive to enjoy oral sex. I can't stand having my clitoris touched directly, even with a tongue, unless I am very close to orgasm already. Upward-facing licks that scrape across the underside of my clit are particularly painful. I live in deathly fear of stubble. Because it is so sensitive, I am always very tense when my boyfriend goes down on me, scared of having my clit hurt, and at the same time wanting to enjoy it so as to be appreciative of the gift he is giving me. Are there any other women who have this problem? Any insights or advice would be appreciated.

 

you ID'd the problem already for yourself, it seems you don't like direct contact with the clitty so have you guy friends lick indirectly. the biggest mistake when eating pussy is to focus 90% of the time on the clit anyway, its the WHOLE pussy that needs a bath...too much clitty action either means too sensitive (as in your case) or absolutely numb (in my gfs case).

 

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talk talk talk!!! communication!!!

 

get a woman to do it...

 

Have him shave before licking, and have him lick on each side of the clitoral hood and on the top side, after spreading your labia, making sure not to touch the clitoris directly.

 

Direct contact to the clitoris isn't the way to go. It's painful for most women.

If I read a certain article correctly, The clitoris is the male equivalent of the tip of the penis, only significantly more sensitive.

Plus, most guys I know don't know how to do it properly. When it comes to women and orgasms, the more time you spend during sex stimulating her, the better the outcome. That's in my experiences of course.