So I am a high school graduate and I am nervous about college in the fall. I have never had a girlfriend in high school, and its not because I couldn't find friends who were girls or no one liked me, I just never got into a relationship. So basically I am a virgin and I don't have much experience with relationships, although I have lots of friends who are girls and have talked to girls alot. Do I have a big disadvantage going into college? Will chicks in college want guys who are experienced(in relationships as well as sex), or will there be plenty of chicks who will be available that I can get with even though I didn't have much like in high school?
I'm sort of like that as well... I'm not a virgin, however, I think I'm the only girl out of my friends who has never been in a 'serious relationship' and not because I couldn't.. just because I never felt it was right, or the person/timing was right. honestly speaking, I'm almost 19, and a guy who has never had sex or been in a relationship wouldn't be a turn off for me at all.. actually more of a turn on than a guy who's spent his high school years fucking every girl he came by.
Everyone at your college (almost) will be strangers meeting new friends, male and female ones. It is the perfect time to get to know a female well and have the relationship progress into a sexual one, if you both want that. College is a time to grow and experiment, physically, sexually and intellectually. So go for it - don't be afraid. If the girl is experienced, she may love to introduce you to sex. When i was 19, I studied in Europe for the summer and met a Swedish woman, 28. She took me into her bed for a week, and taught me everything I ever wanted to know about sex. It was the best week of my life. I hope you are as lucky as I was.
