According to all my sexual partners, I am the best sex they've ever had, I am amazing on top, and I have the best tasting pussy. I don't know if it should make me feel really good about myself, or just assume that they had really shitty sexual partners before me and I'm just average.
so this thread (and RT's amazing array of the world's best fuckers) has brought up another question. does anyone actually tell their partner that they suck? it seems that others' input is the only way to really know, and it seems like you aren't going to tell the person you're having sex with that they are bad... of course, i probably just don't know what i'm talking about...
I'm ok, I think. it really seems to depend on who I'm with. there was one girl with whom I regularly had damp sweaty hair pulling sex that would often go on for 3 hours, and she said I was the best she'd had and I believed her. on the other hand, the last girl I'd been sleeping with, something just wasn't right and (I think) we both knew it. she never had an orgasm out of the 4 times we had sex, and I had to struggle to. I blame her completely.
um if I have sex with someone who sucks I won't really say "that sucked" but it will be quite obvious..
I was thinking almost the same thing but really about if anyone would sit here and really say that they suck at sex and how would one know is there an internet quiz I could take that could tell me?... Also I am knowing a bit way too much information about people...
who was that 3 hours girl? it sounds like E sex. I've been given the best sex as far as technicallity goes by my most experienced boyfriend, my current one. Emotionally though, he isn't the best.. and I think that's what matters most.
i've told 1 that she sucked at giving head...that was as far as it went though so i dont know if she was better in bed or not
I don't how good I am at head.. I guess I'm alright, not amazing though.. I wish.. but it seems to take a long time, and I guess if it took 5 mins I could consider myself good.
i'm pretty sure they all say that. i've come to the conclusion, however, that they're not lying, it's just they're so incredibly happy that it really is the best they could possibly have ever had at that moment. i accept the praise as my due.
i just want to know that at least some sort of effort is there...thats baseline. no effort and im telling you that you fucking suck...otherwise, its all gravy
Mmm, I am the kind of person that is quite vocal with my man during the act with what I like, and I always take control if I'm not getting what I want from the experience. I've never said "you suck at this", no. Honestly, if you're not orgasming during sex, you're totally doing something wrong.
Haha, makes me feel as though I'm reading notes that are being passed back and forth during homeroom....
Penny, I'll bet you are the best in bed. Just my feelings about that. I believe I'm good in bed. I put all I have (and more) into pleasing my partner. I absolutely love sex and can play for hours or days. I once spent from Friday to Monday morning in bed having sex. Just stopping to eat, sleep and stuff. No, it wasn't non-stop but we both had the intentions (and stuck with them) of making love all weekend. It was the most amazing weekend I've ever had.