my friends don't want to hug me!

Discussion in 'Hippies' started by happyrainbow, Jun 14, 2008.

  1. happyrainbow

    happyrainbow Banned

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    well, i think the title says everuthig!:D all my friends hate hugs...:(
     
  2. xexon

    xexon Destroyer Of Worlds

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    Lots of people are like that for whatever reason. They don't like having their personal space violated.

    These are your current friends. New friends enter our lives all the time. Stay hopeful.


    x
     
  3. neodude1212

    neodude1212 Senior Member

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    do you shower?
     
  4. ChildoftheRisingSun

    ChildoftheRisingSun Member

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    I have friends who do that and friends who don't dudes don't do it as often as gals.
    Simple :)
     
  5. HempMama

    HempMama Member

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    Yeah, I know people like that. It does always kinda bother me because I feel like I wish I could hug them, but they don't want hugs. IDK, shower or no shower, I'll hug whoever I love!
     
  6. happyrainbow

    happyrainbow Banned

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    well, i gues i don't stink(hope so:D)
     
  7. samluvsthebeatles

    samluvsthebeatles Member

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    I'm like that with pretty much everyone but the boyfriend. with chick friends, it's because i'm short and end up with breasts pressed against my face (just not into that..) and with family, it just doesn't feel right. i guess hugs just seem sort of sexual to me, oddly enough.
     
  8. Guitar

    Guitar Senior Member

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    I want breasts in my face
     
  9. sushiosoyum

    sushiosoyum Member

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    Maybe your BO is too bad?;)
     
  10. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Free

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    Some of my friends will only hug each other. :( I think we're scared to take it to the hugging level or something.
     
  11. rubber duckey

    rubber duckey Guest

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    Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig Hugz!!!:grouphug:
     
  12. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    everyoner i know loves hugs
    hell we love flying tackle hugs that knock ya to the floor
    hell ive been in group hugs with hmm 2000 or more ppl (u almost get squished to death but damn its amazin)

    even if iu dont know ya ill hug ya
    hell if u stink i'll hold my breath while i hug ya
     
  13. Whiskers123

    Whiskers123 Member

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    I hugged one of my my male friends once. Well he kinda hugged me and I didnt stop him lol.
     
  14. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    male female whatever it dont matter i cant think of anyone i ever met i didnt hug
     
  15. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    Some of my friends will hug me and some won't,like xexon said..
    "They don't like having their personal space violated." I think that's true.People can get funny about that.Me I love hugs,just wish I got more of them.I have no problem hugging anyone,hell I'll hug a troll,anyone.
    The world needs many more hugs.
    soaringeagle
    "hell ive been in group hugs with hmm 2000 or more ppl (u almost get squished to death but damn its amazin)"
    Damn that sounds great.
    What would happen if everyone would hug each other everytime they meet and came in contact with each other,all the time.Feeling compasion and love for each other.It may not change the world but it certaintly might help.:)
     
  16. JaneJimMorrisonFan

    JaneJimMorrisonFan Member

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    Hmmm I don't think anyone at school (friends) dislikes hugs. Some just give really good ones, but not everyone :p
    I used to be friends with these couple of girls who didn't like hugging, and then after a while we drifted apart, and they hug NOW so maybe they just changed as they got older. Because that was at the start of high school.
    But I love hugs from just about anyone :)
    Hun, you can hug me! :D

    peace
    love Jane
     
  17. ereshkigal

    ereshkigal Member

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    A lot of my friends are somewhat closed minded when it comes to hugs.
    Many are too homophobic to give another man a hug.
    But, I don't really mind...I'll break 'em in.
    What can I say? I do, indeed, LOVE my friends.
     
  18. Quoth the Raven

    Quoth the Raven RaveIan

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    Eh, I like hugs.. female friends I hug, but oddly only one of my male friends does ;) wonder why that could be..
    Hell I'll hug anyone, but not everyone wants to hug me :D
     
  19. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Some of my friends don't like to get hugged by everyone, so what? I can fully understand that.
     
  20. highsite

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    we don't encourage touching and hugging in this culture. we encourage competition and isolation and mistrust. the hippie culture was supposed to overcome that, but it didn't.
     

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