Are you thinking about some bi play with a guy in a similar situation as you are? Why would you try bi? Out of curiousity , because you aren't getting anything at home, you don't consider it cheating, it's easier than dealing with another woman just for a bj. Did you just want to see what it was like to suck a cock, or do you want to go the gay way. I'm lucky in several respects. The right person, no hastle, my wifes permission and most of the reasons above. The way I see it, it is better than masturbating. What's your take?
Like yourself, I'm married too, but I haven't made the transition into the bisexual realm yet. I've stumbled across gay porn from time to time, but I find black on black men the biggest turn on. And it's not because of the size of their cocks, but more the sight of all that oiled down and glistening smooth flesh. And being black myself, I even get turned on even more when I oil my cock up for a rub down. One of these days I'm going to find the right person to suck on, but I'm not sure just how far I would go in terms of receiving anal or swallowing. If anything, I think I would be more receptive to swallowing a load and giving anal that taking it. But who knows. If I feel that the guy is STD clean, and might be willing to let him ride me from behind gently.... Just thinking and talking about is has me at attention all the time. Kind of makes it hard to be at work and not stand up when I need to.
I never get it at home, I never get it anywhere lately I've done both sexes and almost everything with them that's not disgusting. If I'm with a guy it's because I'm really into him more than anyone else at the time. When I'm in a relationship though I stick with just my guy/girl.