I was wondering about how it be for the ladies who have tried a dildo that you insert into both partners ? Do you have enough control to make yourself cum when you are doing the stroking ?
Double-ended dildos are more about the visual than the tactile. There is not much control unless one of you uses their hand to guide the dildo around. It's more about seeing that you are sharing the exact same dildo at the same time so you know the experience is very similar to each of you. I took it one step further and aquired a double ended strap on. So I can insert it into me, secure it and then fuck my boyfriend or girl for the evening. I leave it on loose so that there is an inch or two give on my side. It's much more rewarding than the traditional double-dildo because you can let yourself go and not worry about whether or not it's falling out everywhere.
when watching porn, if there is a scene with a double ender in it, i find it a turn on. not quite as much as seeing 2 naked pussies rubbing together though
They're fun - more an addition to the experience than usually being what gets me there. But they are a LOT of fun to use on your own Definitely works then!
sorry for being nosey but im fascinated by these things... what makes them so good to use on your own compared with using with a partner ?