ok, so im not like openly gay, i dont even think i am gay, but ive been best friends with this guy for a long time. but whenever im with him and he kinda makes like play gay jokes, not making fun of gay people, but like jokingly touching my thigh or things like that i get really turned on, what should i do
Hummm...First you say you're not openly gay, then you don't even think you are gay yet when your buddy touchs your thighs or things like that you get really turned on!? Seems to me you might want to sit down and have a nice long heart to heart talk with yourself. Maybe your buddy has fugured out more about you than you have. Could be he's trying to tell you something. So how do you feel about gay folks...could you deal with being gay if you are? What about this joking buddy who touchs you...wheres his feelings about gay folks? Communication with yourself first, then start talking to your buddy. Good luck and have fun!
first off listen to what these guys are saying figure your self out figure him out and go from there and then well gid 'im done
maybe it is time to go jump off a bridge j/k, but maybe this guy is playing on your insecurities and making you think you might be gay. some complex game in aiding your thoughts in the direction of homosexuality.