I'm just starting to get into spanking. My boy does it to me and I love it, but it's taking me a while to be able to do it to him. He wants to take turns being more submissive. Any suggestions for things I can do while I warm up to it? Any thing that's worked well for you?
Just do it and don't be afraid of hurting him. He'll let you know if you go too far so just go with it and don't fear it. You'll warm up to it in no time at all.
I actually sometimes feel a little uncomfortable doing it still... I do do it and I enjoy it but in the back of my head I am thinking this is crazy... but its not... If the guy loves it, or wants you to do it to him go for it... Personally don't just spank.. rub his ass... kiss where you are going to spank... give a light tap... kiss and even lick it again.. then go harder... I can assure you that you will start to get into it once you start... .... okay where is that ass I like so well... I am a jumpy
Utilize the anticipation factor. Make him grip the headboard or chair. Tie him to them if he will let you. Carress his ass gently, all the while letting him no you are about to set it on fire. Make him nervous with anticipation. Make him wonder what he has gotten into. Then show him. Further, make him lick you or satisfy you in some way as the toll for his release. Turn him around and stroke him madly. Good luck. ~Chainz
Or use something to spank him with sometimes I get weirded out with just the hand... use a belt... or a (clean and unused please) fly swatter...
