My boyfriend and I havent been getting along very well lately. We talked about it tonight and he says he cant stand me smoking as much as i do or when im around him. He used to smoke but doesnt anymore. But its a pretty big part of my life. He says he doesnt mind if I smoke when hes not around, but considering hes my boyfriend, Im around him a decent amount. I also keep thinking about our future lives together, and I dont want to have to worry about smoking in my own house. Is it bad for me to think this way?
he probably feels like pot is more important to you than he is, and thus is hurt over that. would it really kill you to cut down around him? might save some money on consumption costs along the way
When I stopped smoking (due to a court issue) I was super pissed that my now EX boyfriend was still smoking so much. I was looking for some support
Allonym, when you put it that way... it makes sense. Maybe he feels like he cant make me happy and only pot does. when in reality, it just enhances it. But I understand why he might feel that way. wow. thanks!
I don't know if this will apply to pot smoking, but after I quit smoking tobacco my nose became extremely sensitive to smoke. As in I am now capable of smelling smoke from several meters away (when I was still a smoker I wouldn't have smelled anything). And every time I smell cigarette smoke I'm grossed out. Maybe it's like that for your boyfriend?
im not saying you have to stop totally, but talk to him and tell him youre gonna try and cut down a bit, because hes still important to you and so is his opinion. again, dont promise him youll quit/never smoke up around him (since you obviously dont want that to happen), butsay youre gonna try and cut down aroudn him a bit. compromising even a little shows a lot of empathy and can help a relationship a lot more than stonewalling, or saying on ething and doing another
Don't give up pot. There is nothing wrong with it. Marijuana is no different than the daily late at Starbucks. Keep tokin
No way am I gonna give up pot completely. We talked about it today. and weve been getting along fantastically. He understands completely I dont wanna give it up, he doesnt care if i smoke when hes not around, or just not a lot if im around him and other people who smoke, oorrr at concerts n festies and stuff. So were all good, and I am totally ok with that. were getting along awesome. I think he feels a lot better now.
Time for a new boyfriend or maybe some rehab (Joke), maybe if he cant accept you then why the hell is he with you? or you with him?
You have to understand that everyone feels differently about everything, even herb. People are different and you need to respect their wishes. This is why you need to talk to him about it because he needs to respect your wishes too.
I have been tokin up since 1967 .. Maybe time to tell B/F yah untill I meant U did'nt smoke as much LoL, mellow the fuck out .. I have never been able to smoke to much ,, How much is that ??????? LoL !! I think there is a lil ensecurity on B/Fs part and he wants more attention .. Some people are like that !! Had several girls over yr.s say something about my weeds smokeing, or spending to much time with my Hippie friends .. My answer was always the same : U knew this was me when U meant me ! I ain't gonna stop enjoying my self !! Don't let the door hit U in the ASS on the way out !! And don't even think about fucking with my music !! If they love U then they except u and no try to remake U .. Biggest problem couples face ..
