Hey! A couple of years ago, I was at an international camp and I met this Canadian guy (I'm a Brit by the way, can't remember if that comes up when I post ) and I fell slightly head over heels for him. Nothing happened (I was fifteen, had a bf, etc...) and we stay in contact just as friends. Neither of us has said anything that implies we feel differently, although my friends who met him as well rekon he liked me too. It was only after I met this other guy (turned out to be gay - long story) who I really liked and is now my best friend that I started to get over him, although I do still really like him. He's coming over to visit in August for a week and hopefulyl staying at my house, so I'm really excited and I've had to put up with my friends teasing me about getting up to stuff. But they're all really happy for me and want to meet him and everything. So this is all well and good! However... *cue dramatic music* A friend of mine who I met through my brother is back from uni and single. You all know where this is gonig right? We were talking on facebook and went for lunch after I finished work the other day. I had a great time, I think he's alright and think he likes me too; we're gonna meet up again soon. It was the first time I've really been on a "date" that wasn't the cinema (and even that's only been once). He's going back to uni in September. Now, my question! What do I do? I don't want to keep seeing this guy only to say "sorry, this guy's come to England and I've liked him for ages" but then I don't want to miss my chance with him either, because I pretty much know me and guy number 2 feel the same way about each other but with guy number one, there's no knowing and he's going all the way back to Canada after only a week. It's also unlikely that I could carry on seeing guy number 2 after he's gone back to uni cos it's still quite far away, but heck it's the summer at the moment, I can enjoy myself for now. But yeah, any advice is appreciated :hat:
geez, neither of them has asked you to marry them yet. one step at a time. just enjoy their company as you can.
I am...I just don't want it to look like I'm stringing either of them along because...well because I'm not
