Hi, Im seventeen im a handsom guy so i attract women. I was pretty sure i was gay but i didnt want to make any certain desicions untill i went all the way with a woman... one of my best girl friends decided she liked me and now weve been going out for six months... we havent done anything except make out and ive felt her boobs a lot!!!!! Ive really dug myself into a huge hole because i dont find myself getting hard when we make out and stuff. I really dont want to hurt her feelings but i think i have to end it.... but after six months of great times i dont know how break it off... its really really complicated. i feel like i love her but cant "love her". I live in a place where you cannot express yourself as you are sexuality wise, that place is called high school. please give me advice... i want and need advice really bad.
Damn man What a shitty situation to get yourself in. Honestly - just tell her you're gay. She'll understand and might even find it cute or something :S Heh and since when was one unable to express their sexuality openly at high school? I do it :S You just need to be open. thats all the advice I can give.
i had that too.....i was dating a girl once and i didnt get hard or ne thing when i was making out with her .........eventually i told her that i was gay and she thought it was adorable....and now were best friends and her family kinda adopted me as a son/grandson/cousin........when ever i get mad at my stepdad (hes an alchoholic and is anti-gay) i go to them and they help calm me down...i went to them 2 months ago when my stepdad nearly broke me neck.....my "adopted mom" didnt have ne room in her house so she referred me to a shelter and i wound up in the shelter for 2 days while he was sobering up
oh... wow. that is a long time... My stomach is in knots. i need to break up with her. the timing doesnt seem right. my gf's best friend would tell the whole school and i dont think im ready for that... i feel very weak right now. i'll tell you what happens
you must be a yankee cause round here boy the only those racist kkk neo-nazi good ol' boys hate worse than blacks is gay guys
- hate those bastards. Anyway back to the topic - I think if you are in a trusting relationship with your girl friend then enplane you are gay then just end the relationship - hopefully on ok terms . As the high school - take my approach - i am hear and queer get used to it. however i don't know what it is like in the USA as gay basing goes but over hear in the UK i think i get it easy
I couldnt tell her over the phone... i chickend out. i wrote her an email and told her to call me. she called me i anwered did u read my email?? she said no.... i said go read it and call me back. she said ok... then i hung up on her. its been about 7 minutes she hasnt called back. either shes not near a computer or shes in such shock that she cant dial my number...
Don't I know it. I'm a Bisexual Catholic school girl in the South. It isn't a very, shall we say, "open" place to come out in.
So she's heartbroken she cant believe ive been lying to her for 7 months. the good news is were broken up. my whole school doesnt know. I told my best friend the otherday and i didnt know what to expect. he was really cool about it. He said all good things and it made me feel really great. Im taking a break from myspace/facebook because my ex gf is really depressed and i think if she knows im not on there she will stop telling everyone how depressed and heartbroken she is.
most of my friends are straight, I tried to tell them I was gay but they were "but... but... you're just bi". I tried dating a girl, that sucked ass, and i got an STD, god damn it was the closet all over again.
Oh man that sucks. ^ (std) I came out to a few family members and then when i started dating this girl i went back in the closet. it sucks coming out twice. but it was liberating coming out to my bestfriend. i was all crying. he was really cool about it. he has great advice. so now this girl and i are friends again. we saw get smart it was as if she never hated me. and now im officially out of the closet to a few friends, but my school doesnt have to know about my personal life. Everythings good.
