now i'm 18 and my younger friend is 13 and i have a crush on him i wish i didnt but i do everytime he play wit me he always touch me on my butt and start laughing or sometimes when play hide and seek he touch my butt again and start laughing and say dont tell nobody but i have good convo but i still him to stop doin those things becuz i dont want to get acuse of sumthing dealing wit youngers boys but he keep putting hes hands around my waist and start laughing or when we outside and try to rub my back then when i pay attetion or hit him he stop does this mean he likes me or hes confuse?? and is it wrong to have feelings for a younger person????
It's not wrong to have feelings for your young friend, but it may be illegal to do anything sexual with him. He may just be playing around, or he may be seriously curious about connecting, but you are now an adult and depending on what state you are in could be in serious trouble if you are ever caught having sex with a 13-year-old.
oo i never had sex or kiss him before but all the time like when I'm outside talking to my friend acting like feminine men then he just come in and say hes my boyfriend and put hes arms around my waist but no i would never try to have sex wit him so young
Fantasies are one thing; following through on them is another. If you can't handle just sticking to fantasies, it's best to move on and find someone of legal age. Aside from jail and having to permanently register as a sex offender, think of the mental and emotional damage you could do to someone that young, who may THINK he's ready for sex but is likely not ready at all. That's not even to mention a RELATIONSHIP. You deserve to be with someone who's on the same maturity level and wavelength as you are, whether it's just casual or more serious. Final verdict: Put him out of your mind however you can and fixate on someone else.
You're eighteen and he is thirteen. There is a major physical/mental/lifestyle difference. While you may be attracted to him for whatever reason, I adamantly believe there is no reason for you to even consider any sort of sexual relationship.
no no no i'm not sexually attract to him i dont even want to have sex wit yung guys like that i just had feelings for him thats it
OK, I have seen some 13 year olds who are very attractive. Never would think of carrying on a relationship with one. It's normal to be attracted to someone who's good looking but the difference between us and pedophiles is that we don't mess with them. Now your feelings for him are probably like a friendly sort of love. You like hanging around with him. You guys click. Some time when he does this stuff that is confusing you, maybe you should ask him flat out why he does it. Maybe he is gay. Then have a talk with him about why you can't return his feelings and he makes you feel uncomfortable. Be nice, but be firm about it. I've had to do this with a friend who was doing much worse things than your friend (goosing). We're good now. I also pointed him to a gay teen forum so he could have an outlet. Seemed to have helped. On his 18th birthday though all bets were off
