Dude you are so not a loser because you're a virgin. When I was your age I was at home with one of the hottest girls in school, we smoked up so much I couldn't spell "bong" and were drinking piss warm beer. Out of nowhere, she takes off her top, starts playing with her nipples and asks if I like her breasts. I nodded and went to get another beer. When I came back she was gone. I'm a loser. You're just young.
Hahaha, zoomie you rule... Pushit, just go have some fun and not worry if you are a loser or not or anything for that matter... Just go be young and have fun...
Well...uhmm, so long as the cops don't barge in and sodomize you with their clubs, you're my hero. P.S. Try just touching them. That's all. Be touchy.
I stopped seeing a guy for nearly explicitly that reason. Kissed with too much technique and planning.