Once in awhile when I am spanking my chick she seems to go away like she is zoned out, especially when I think maybe it should stop, the spanking i mean, we have a safe word it's confusion ( good word because I get confused with it all) anyway I'm spanking her hard and she is just moaning and taking it and I get a little freaked and I use the safe word and stop, that's when she seems to come out of it and begs me not to stop. Any one else have anything happen to them. Peace
Hey, Silver - what you're describing is "subspace". Here's the wikipedia article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subspace_(BDSM) That's exactly where she's trying to get, so when she gets that look on her face you should do the opposite of stop. I've sortof been there before, and it's pretty amazing.
Molly you are right on as usual, that explains it perfectly, she just goes someplace else and seems to love the trip. And your right it is not my place to stop it, it is her call. I think she just stops feeling any pain and just really gets into it. Subspace this is all very cool. Peace
I go there often and it is AMAZING !!! I feel absolutly no pain at all, it is like I am completely in another realm and it is the best feeling ever. I think that he could do just about anything to me when I am in that "zone"
I have no idea what you guys are on about but it sounds to me like you smoke something before you shag?
We are on a chair with her over my knee most of the time. No we don't smoke anything until after. Peace
No smoking anything.. haha.. I just get sooo into it, him being controling and me submissive which does not come easily to me.. I think that is why I get so turned on... I get so focused on him that the pain and everything else fades away
When you see this look across her face, absolutely do not change your rhythm. Instead, offer her your finger to suck on. Let her simulate felatio on your fingers. Grip her hands together as you spank her and if they remain together, the next time you may wish to restrain her as well. She is surrendering control to you. The same goes for the girls. Make him please you in some way before you will stop. The spanker must control the spankee, so to speak. Have fun. ~Chainz
