How old is too old?

I actually agree with quite a bit of what VG had to say. One can't generalise, but I actually some find older (not OLD) guys pretty attractive too. Not sure if I'll grow out of it, but its definitely there, and it's a far stronger attraction that I have than I do for younger guys or guys my age. I guess I can associate somewhat with Shadowshifta. I hate to describe him as just a "guy", because he isn't just a guy, but anyway - the guy that I've "got a thing going with" (its very complicated. Not sure how else to explain it), is 24 and I'm only 17. We've spoken about it and really, all it comes down to is that we like each other and enjoy each other's company. And honestly - that's what matters when it comes to relationships. Who cares if there's an age gap?

If the two people love each other and they're both in a happy and healthy relationship in which no one is being used, than surely all is well, even if there's an age gap?

 

I've only recently starting dating/sex with men, like 8 months or so, and have been finding that the age of men that I would date, was getting older. I'm 25 tho, and dont think I would touch anything younger than 20, twinks just do not turn me on, at all.....

And I am increasingly finding myself attracted to men in the mid-30's or even late 30's and its weirding me out, tho alot of things lately have been weirding me out.

I'm typically attracted to physically bigger, men, with manly features, that generally only come with age. Well there it is. ^^

 

I think you are hitting on something here that I have givn some thought to. Firstly, I am bi and get turned on by youth itself, whether a young man or young woman.

But, I have seen some young butch lesbians (The kind who would and could kick my ass if they thought I was letching over them) and was amazed at how I was physically attracted to them. It's because they had boy's haircut, baseball cap, blue jeans and tank top, beardless face, hairy pits and slim body build like a teen guy. They cultivated the look and it worked on me. So, I am attracted to twinks and tranny bois. Youth is its own beauty.

 

I recently been dating a guy who is 33 and spanish (im 21) but i think i suit a more mature man. he is also an absolute stud-so its allowed!

 

My ex was twelve years older than me when we got together. I was twenty-one at the time.

I have mostly been with older guys, because they tend to be more mature. I think over forty in most cases would be too old for me.

 

I have never been out with an older bloke, just snogged a couple. they seem a lot more comfortable in their own skin, truth be told.

Didn't have to dance around the whole 'is he?', 'isn't he?' situation, which was nice for a change.

Personally I wouldn't go out with anyone to old mind you, about 5 years older tops.

Either way, this post is way too old. Just bored so I felt I would reply regardless.

 

I am a softy for retired Tops!