honestly, how much does it matter to you?

physical attraction, would you date a person considered ugly?, i have to admit even though i think its not right to base that choose just on looks, if a girl is not attractive to me i probably wouldn't date her, because while not most important i think its pretty important to me, and ive turned a few girls down just because they were ugly to me. its fucked up but it does matter to me.

 

well, we're attracted to people for a reason! it's to further our species. we want a mate that's healthy and viable so we can create babies that have a chance of surviving. not someone that's sickly...

it's biological.

 

yeah, ive always thought that, like we pick people that are more attractive cause they have better traits for survival of the species, like that is the true reason for my shallowness i guess haha, it biological.

 

It depends; I mean, I'd more readily date someone who was attractive and also had a great personality, but as far as relationships go, I'd have an iffy-looking person who was cool over some slutty hot girl. I think the most important question is if you can find yourself loving them anyway, or rather, can you find them beautiful with the features they have?

 

A person's personality and the way they carry themselves reflects how their outer appearance looks to me... Everyone's basis on who is attractive and who is not is different.. While I might find so-and-so attractive, another person might find them hideous...And vice-versa.. But like I said someone's insides really reflect their outsides shell as well.. I don't base my liking for someone completely on their appearance, other things attract me to someone, just not their looks.. to each their own...

 

im not a relationship person, so i cant really answer this.

but yes, i think i would. if you have love for someone then they are automatically attractive to you. love is unconditional.

i have many friends who are by definition "beautiful", beautiful enough to date damn near anyone they want. but one of them is married to an overweight, gothic, greasy, unemployed slacker. she would do anything for him and nobody gets it. but they do, and thats what matters. another friend of mine is a gorgeous asian girl and she is married to someone whos face has been badly disfigured. and they have a great relationship, im jealous of them! i hope to one day find a love like that

my point is that love is blind

 

I would not date someone unattractive for me... just because I wouldn't even think of dating.. you know... as green hell said "it's biological".

*edit: In my case attractivity ain't measured only by look.

 

looks attract you initially, but personality attracts you for the long run. sometimes people can surprise you and you can end up falling for someone you otherwise wouldn't look at twice.

but bottom line, you need attraction. how do you get off if you're not physically attracted to your partner. not possible.

luckily, there are so many different people out there who have a different idea of what is 'physically attractive' - so there's someone for everyone.

 

You can be beautiful to one and not so to another. It is a matter of taste. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder for real. So if you are attractive to someone you can fall for them. I'm sure we all know just what ugly is when we see it.But do we all know what attractive is. Sure we do it's what attractes us. It's how do you carry yourself. How do you keep yourself and whats inside you that counts. Looks are everything at the start but it becomes more as time goes by.

Peace

 

Physical attraction is what first draws us to a person, but personality is what keeps us with that person. While personality is what's important, you may never even consider apporaching someone if you don't find them physically attractive.