Closed or Open

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Dominico, Jun 3, 2008.

  1. Dominico

    Dominico Member

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    naked had me really think about this topic of having an open relationship or closed which do u ppl prefer??
     
  2. ganesha1967

    ganesha1967 barefoot bellybearer

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    Greetings,

    I guess, everyone has his or her own mindset about the type of relationship, be it the monogamous or polyamorous kind. The term 'open' when it comes to relationships, does not only imply that one can merrily spread his or her body fluids, have sex whenever (s)he likes, but also that the lovemates in the relationship know about their lovers' feelings.

    It is a crucial part of a polyamorous realtionship, that there is truth and trust involved. I am all for a poly bi relationship, in which all people know about my feelings, and (if they like) also form a happy loving group, finding love from each other freely.
    It is something of an ideal, for sure, since the ugly monsters of jealousy and dishonesty are lurking in the corner of the mind, when it comes to breaking up the traditional one-to-one relationship. However, I believe, that love is strong enough to spread it over more than just one person.

    So, to give the short reply: I prefer an open, poly relationship.

    Love and Peace of heart and mind,

    ~*Ganesha*~
     
  3. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    Closed. I'd really dislike it if my guy were sleeping around and I'd really dislike doing the same to him.
     
  4. Electric boy

    Electric boy Member

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    Open relationship - i would love to be in a relationship with a guy and go out into town like any normal straight relationship e.g. holding hands, kissing etc
     
  5. sushiosoyum

    sushiosoyum Member

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    Open relationship!

    I believe anyone who believes they are all their partner needs sexually suffers from some hubris and some abstract removal from the real world.

    As a bisexual male it is impossible to believe one partner can satisfy my every desire. They simply can't! Open relationships reduce the whole stress of cheating. If all parties know of each other it isn't cheating.

    Most people in the world have more than one friend. Why is this? Because a wide range of friends are more likely to fulfill our needs. Sexuality/sexual relationships are no different, in my opinion.
     
  6. Ryouseiteki

    Ryouseiteki Member

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    OK I don't know I prefer a closed relationship but I suppose with the right person I would be talked into an open one if I felt secure enough.
     

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