Have her read this - it might offer some pointers. http://www.realprincessdiaries.com/2008/05/27/throat-fucking/
yeah the gag is thne worst i think physically girls are not prepared for that...nature didnt really think guys are gonna love deepthroat
maximus, I'd like to say that I can and do deepthroat on a regular basis, practice makes perfect! When I say deepthroat I mean nose to belly, balls on chin style. My husband runs about 8 and a 1/4 inches or so, to give you an idea. He likes to hold my head and throat fuck me deep, rubbing the ridge of his head back and forth through my tonsils, or hold my head down on him when i get my nose to his belly. But it's not like I was born doing this... The reason most girls shy away from it, i think, (if they can't do it easily) is the "what if" factor; what if i puke?, what if i choke?, what if it hurts me? what if what if... trust is important here. Here's a good trick to help her get used to the feeling in the back of her throat: start her giving you oral before you are completely hard and as she sucks on you let her inch her head farther and farther... this way she gets used to something touching the back of her throat, but her gag reflect isn't getting pounded as it would if you were super hard and into it. let her rub the head of your half-hard cock on the back of her throat and try to control yourself so you don't all of a sudden grow and pop her in the tonsils. Or you might consider, that if deepthroating is so important to you, then why aren't you doing it with the tons of girls you know who can swallow a banana in one bite?