relationship is falling apart on us.

i really like my girlfriend i really do. but we have been having major problems do to the fact that we are so different and we show affection differently, I being the guy, am more affectionate then she is. i always tell her she looks nice i always send her the cute txt messages and bring her flowers unexpectedly at work.

but it has hit a wall

i really like her like i said but the little voice in my head is screaming "you know this isnt going to last... your just going to get hurt" but we've been seeing each other for over 2 months, i wouldn't say its love, but we are definitely deeply invested in each other.

its a cant live with her cant live without her situation and ive never been in one like this before.

im looking for some advice on how to proceed, i will be really hurt if i leave her now but this relationship just seems so doomed. fights over nothing, arguments over movies.. just stupid ****.. at least twice a week...

this girl means a lot to me and the fights are a combonation of me taking things to seriously and her not taking them seriously enouph.

 

Here's a piece of advice I got from a psychologist.......Give it a few more weeks and see if anything changes...maybe she is in a funk mentally or she's got stuff going on in her mind unrelated to you and she is not really meaning to give a cold shoulder but it is coming off that way......If you really care about this girl and think she could someone to vest a long-tern relationship with continue on as you have been all along and give it a couple of weeks and if nothing has really changed break up with her......

DO NOT BREAK UP WITH HER BECAUSE SHE IS BEING A BITCH OR WHATEVER..people go through normal periods (days, couple weeks, if it is longer than a month counseling might be another alternative) of depression. BREAK UP WITH HER TO SEE WHAT HER REACTION IS GOING TO BE.....if she really cares and wants to be with you she will fight for the relationship to stay in tact and it will be very easy to amend things and that also creates a common ground for talking out any problems you/her might have (ex: how affectionate she is)......If she doesn't care then you know you are not wasting your time and it will be easier to move on cause you have already put that mental filter in your mind that the waves are rough BUT you have put forth your best effort in working on the relationship.....it's easier to realize it is her lose not yours

Hope that helps any

 

well i finally got to actually see her and we are mostly fine now.. but she keeps bringing up all this stuff shes gunna be doing like, without me cause we are not hanging out until satuerday.. think shes just trying to make me jelous at this point?