I've been talking to a lot of girls recently and have come to the conclusion that if I don't tell girls I'm a virgin when they ask, I'm going to get laid way faster. What do you guys think? And to add to my reasoning, when I start talking to girls they are usually always dtf (down to fuck) but they will ask me if I'm a virgin or how experienced I am and when I tell them I'm a virgin I get a bullshit - Oh that's cool. I'm in a pinch. Thanks guys.
No, just generally. Are you ever not mean? Do you ever write something nice or try to make people feel good about themselves?
I didn't really. I was sitting on the floor already Thanks for the compliment. Did it hurt that much to do it??
I don't understand what's "creepy and dull" about it. I'm not metting girls just to get laid, I talk to them because they interest me. I start talking to girls and when I tell them I'm a virgin, they thinking I'm lying. I guess I just don't send out that message with my appearance and personality. and just to throw this out there, I don't think he's being mean or rude, just brief and that's fine. I asked for advice and that's what I got. Oh, and I'm 15 turning 16 in June.
most 15-16 year olds are virgins others lie but i totaly understand what cluelboy was sayin just using the term dtf wtf is that seems like every comnversation turns sexual then boring when they find out u are clueless\ at 15-16 youir best chance at losing your virginity is to have a relationship that lasts and feels secure talking sex with 20 girls aint gonna get u there
Well, he wouldn't read her the state law that said she could go to jail for 30 years and be on a sex offender registry for the rest of her life and possibly end up living under a bridge like they do here in Miami Beach. :huh: (BTW Crueluserboy and Angelina, I was about to yell "GET A ROOM" with your earlier dialogue. :H Are you two married or something?)
Damn you. Yeah I understand using the whole dtf terminology, I was simply in a hurry typing. In the past, (not that I'm not still young), but I was naive and passed up a lot of opportunities that I should get slapped for lol I had a chance to run a train on a 38 year old australian with my uncle (although that would be a little akward), and skipped out on it. I still messed around with her though, she got me with the accent. Infact, I believe older women are easier to get with. :/ Oh and crueluserboy, you need to actually read peoples posts before you criticize them. soaringeagle mentioning me talking with 20 girls, he never said anything about 20 year-old girls. Just saying.
Maybe I am missing something but I didn't read that he was trying to score with 20-year old chicks? Maybe that's what you should do, play the 'innocent young guy looking to be corrupted' card and go for the older chick to teach you the tricks. Perhaps the girls you talk to, if they are virgins themselves, want someone who might be able to lead them in bed and the thought of doing it with a virgin boy doesn't reassure them. Or maybe they are just stupid girls like crueluserboy suggested and they aren't worth your time. But then again, guys don't seem to really care if the girl they want to fuck is stupid, do they? Oh who am I kidding, I haven't got a clue how to help a 15 year old male get laid. Good luck with it! And Shale - whatever
Angelina, most the girls I talk to aren't virgins. Something funny I thought I'd throw in - Most guys my age are like damn she a hot mom, I'd fuck her, blah blah blah. I'm the kid that actually tries. I had a chance to hook up with my friends mom but didn't make a move fast enough. (damn me) I've started to go over there again, and trust me, I'm not going to make that mistake twice. On another note, I'm probably just going to get a girlfriend. But that still doesn't answer my question. Do I lie and tell them I'm not a virgin and if so, how experienced am I? Or tell them the truth. Then again, I'm not worried about size or not being able to preform, I am actually quite confident in myself. Thanks guys.
Ok. My 2 cents worth. Tell them you are a virgin, but not just in conversation. Only tell the girl you are close to being with when it is relevant conversation. Not that there is anything to be ashamed about being a virgin, I really don't think there is. Especially at 15. My opinion: postiing a pic of a girl you know with the comment "she's not the best, but she'll do" gives me more of an indication of why you are still a virgin more than anything else. You are not bad looking. But if that girl was me, I'd tell you to go f**k yourself. You don't seem like a bad kid, just a bit clueless.
Wow. Did you really just say that? Wow. And really, being a virgin at 15? Oh my god, you're a freak!!!11 Um yeah. I don't see why losing your virginity at such a young age is at all necessary. Especially with a girl who "isn't the best" but "will do." For her sake, I hope it doesn't pan out with her. She's not a fucking object. Like Angelina said.... I'm not saying you're a bad kid... just clueless. =/
predicting virgin till mid 30s when he finaly just pays a prostitute ya got alot to learn and alotta maturing to do before your ready the way ya talk makes u horribly unatractive the fact that youd even concider your freinds mom as an option..and that last stsatement shes not the best but she'll do.. unless ya wise up and mature quite a bit b4 you lose it you will most likelky just end up takin advantage of a drunk gorl or pay a hooker when your 30 if you wait a few years though you might not be (or make otthers) totaly miserable my advice..dont talk..the more u say the worse ya sound
I know editing my post can't help me much. But yall took that all wrong. "When I said she's not the best, but she'll do" as in I would prefer someone not random but I'm actually starting to get to know her pretty good. I meant it in the fact that I just met her. Sorry that came out the wrong way. And what's wrong with going for older women. Wether yall are harsh or not, I'll continue to keep you updated I guess.
Do let us know, I am highly curious as to how this goes for you. You are doing pretty well for all the verbal bashing you are getting, and maintaining politeness with us despite it. I don't think you are a jerk or anything. Good luck with it, don't stress too much about it, it is true that it (sex, whatever) comes along when you least expect or are looking for it.
Thanks, I'm just a generally happy person. You made my day. Oh, I would copy/paste the messages but that's just weird lol She said she wants to do it in a sona (sp?) or her hot tub with me. Badass. Getting me excited. I'm answering my own question here, but I think honesty is best as I'm a person who is very prone to it. And crueluserboy, I finally understood what you said at the begininning. This girl has not once brought up my viriginity. (then again they may just be the way I talk to her but...) she seems different than most girls. crueluserboy, what I think you were saying is that if girls ask that stuff early on, all they are in it for is sex and it may not be my best interest? Anyways, thanks. And again, I'll let yall (lol), know if it goes down.
