fuck!!! life fucking sucks I fucking hate this shit!!!!!

My mom and I get along about as well as a cat and the dynomite up its ass crack!!! I swear to fucking god!!! Everytime we talk we end up fighting!!! I have been avoid her well for the last week or so but we always seem to get in a fight!! Today she went to go get my phone which got taken up in school a while ago and my principle is all like your son has completely given up in school this last week he won't do anywork and just sits there... And I'm like wat the hell do you expect!!! Its the last fucking week I'm not doing anywork at all!!! And she starts telling me all this shit about my uncle ( who is my number one inspiration for being a musician) and how he wishes so bad that he went to colledge and wasnt a musician!! And I know this is not true because I have talked to him and that's not what he said at all!!!!!!!! So there is another example of how she says shit to manipulate me
and then I was like whTevr and shit died down... Then I go up and I'm like mom when do you want to go get my Mohawk done Tuesday or should I get dad to take me... And she starts going into some big argument about how people with Mohawks and tattoos are trying to draw attention to themselves because they feel unmoved or some shit and I'm say no that's just my style they look flippin. Awesome' and I want one and she's like you need to get your heads out of the clouds cause your never going to be ausician and your never going to be successful unless you get your grades up and get a real job!!! And that PISSED the evver living shit out of me!!! My mother seat there and told me I was going to fail as a musician!!!!!!!!!!!! I flipped the fuck out!!!! She has been getting suspicious about me smoking so I have been clean for about three weeks now and that's part of the problem when. Smoked I was. So mellow the whole fucking time I didn't care but now she pissed me off so fucking much!!!!! I need something some drug or something that will not show I. A drug test and will calm me down better than a fucking ciggarret!! But so pissed right now

 

That was some rant there buddy... all in one breath Ill bet too..

 

remember, go down the road, not across.

 

your young. It sounds like your mom is trying to look out for you. even though it might not seem like it right now. btw you shouldnt do drugs because you pissed that will lead to addiction. do them cause you like doin them

 

Do you know your chances of becoming a sucessful musician? Sure it can happen if you practice every day but you still need to do good in school so you have a fallback if music doesnt work out.

 

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that's some fucked up advice lol

 

You do need to get good grades to get a good job man. Face it.

By the way, what instrument do you play? If you can post something here and I'll tell ya what I think.

 

I play guitar... But mostly bass I'm in a small band at the moment and we are working on tons of new shit!!! I will post it later!!!

 

Trust me man, if you keep playing you'll eventually get a gig somewhere.

My bands actually getting really good, On the weekend I'm gonna film us playijng to se it lol.

 

yea, an artistic career might not be the most yielding. think of a secondary.

 

alrite i dont know where to start, first your 13, what 7th grade, maybe 8th. STOP SMOKING you are far to young, not til high school. second musician usully fail so stop being a bitch and get it done in school, unless your fucking jimi hendrix or some kind of prodigy youll never make it, get that thrugh your head. next mohawks are fucking gay, find a new way to get attention. and last(most important) dont fuck up your relationship with your mom. i did and it sux, i hate my parents and i dont want to, i kno you want your space ans a "teenager" but your not one so suck it up, your mom sounds like a smart person cuz shes right in everything you said and you are WRONG. so stop bitch, stop smoking, stop getting faggy mohawks, and get your shit together, or youll be a dead beat bum playing his guitar on the streets of NYC for nickles and quarters to buy heroin, cuz thats the road your going. and what did your mom do to you that makes you hate her, try to make sure you dont fuck up your life, like every careing mother does. she loves you but your just a little snot nose punk and if you were my child i would kick you out of my house and make you make it as a "musicain"

 

Why else would someone want a mohawk besides attention?

 

well first off do better in school, but u know that (or should anyways) so get on it. and by the way plenty of musicians have day jobs and just play gigs when they get the chance. also dont listen to what any body says about a mohawk. u want a mohawk get a mohawk, if u think there cool thats all that matters. and also wanna do drugs when ur 13, thats fine just its not gonna kill u just do good in school as well and everything well be fine. and patch things up with ur mom no need for either one of u to be up in each others shit just apologize and get back to ur life.

 

yea first of all doing drugs for the sole purpose of escaping problems leads to addiction. i get high because its fun, and I like the deep thinking involved. that's not to say sometimes i like how it makes me forget my problems for a short time, but thats not the only reason i like to get high. second, you're only 13, you still probably don't know what you want to do yet. you have so much time to find out. one day you might want to be a fireman, the next an astronaut. stick to guitar, but don't assume school doesn't matter because you will end up playing guitar anyway. keep your options open. if you give up on school now you will regret it later in life.

 

mohawks draw attention, period.

maybe you are such a super duper mature 13 yr old, but im just going to say that your just bitching and moaning about dumb kid shit. you wanna be famous kid? well guess what! so does everybody else! you need a REAL JOB, thats right johnny! a REAL JOB!!

i understand your situation, i have a mohawk and im a musician of sorts, and im moving to NYC within the next yearish to get a jumpstart. and my mohawk? chicks dig it, so i have it, i mean, i do think it looks awesome, but its alot of work, and i kinda miss my long hair of old. so think a little bit about statistics and those words that your mom said, you dont wanna be a broke-as-fuck street musician

 

I can't believe all these hippie kids are telling you to get a job! haha.

I think it's wrong for your mom to discourage you from your dreams and I'm sorry.

 

Part of growing up is understanding that SOMETIMES adults will have good advice that you should really put some thought into. Above all, do what you feel is right, but she is your mom, even if she is being manipulative I BET she is doing it out of love for you. Communication is key to any problem ever.

 

Dude, a 16 year old doesn't need to be talking about someone ELSE being "too young". Just like the 18 year olds tell you, and you disagree, its the same with 13 year olds and us. Relax.

OP: Dude... if you will speak like an adult, you will be respected as one. I cuss; I still think it emphasizes certain things and is sometimes necessary... but honestly, you lose all credibility cursing over and over. You sound extremely un-educated and ignorant. Chillax, and get your point across.

I have an mother that doesn't listen either. It sucks. Get used to it, and understand that you're going to have to branch out from her guidelines and realize which ones are necessary to follow and others that you decide to secretly disobey. Getting pissed off will do absolutely nothing. If you'll stop and think about this, you'll see that all anger does and make you have to get more angry the next time. Just understand that you're mother is a negative person, and what she says may not always be true.

 

This is what happens when adults don't hit there kids.