Okay sooo I'm still in high school and will be graduating soon, my girlfriend and I are still both virgins but we fool around ALOT. Well i take that back...i've stuck it in her for like a second but thats it lol. But anyways...I like to finger her and eat her out alot. I do it about everytime were together. She has never had an orgasm before tho and she can't help me out either cuz she doesnt know how it feels. Well I rub her clit alot and im gentle...I got fast when she tells me to and she starts FLIPPING. Her clit is extremely sensitive. I can rub it for 20mins and she'll just moan loudly and thats it. Sometimes she'll close her legs cuz she told me it feels so good. Ive tried g spot too, she starts moanin the moment i stick my fingers in her. Once i start goin she'll moan for a while while im fingering her g spot, but still won't orgasm, she'll tell me to stop cuz she can't handle it anymore. She told me the last time we fooled around that she was gettin close she could kinda feel something, but she couldn't take it anymore. So i guess she keeps gettin closer and closer but it's VERY HARDWORK. ANYTIPS!??
If she keeps getting closer and closer... I think it will probably just take time. You're young, keep practicing. Zozobra... like old man gloom?
here... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zozobra lots of fun every year in Santa Fe. Sorry to stray off topic.
oh lol nah im in spanish three...im only a junior in high school lol and it means anxiety in spanish and i like the word..idk haha. ne ways...orgasms homeboys!
She should have soome fun on her own, masturbate and get to know what she likes, what it feels like, then she can give your more help in getting her there!
Don't ignore her other zones too - my wife gets really turned on if I kiss and bite her neck and nipples whil fingering her. She gets a great orgasm. Use your own initiative when fingering her don't let her take all the control - you do it slow if she's fast. Also, you need to push her beyond that leg shutting limit - maybe even a bit of restraint could be fun ?
she isnt really into masterbating...i was basically her first kiss if u catch my drift..so she doesn't know where he "spots" are ya know lol but were gettin better i guess, and yea she told me i need to keep her from resisting so ive been like manhandling her lol and im a big guy so i dont wanna hurt her ya know, i could crush her lol.
Maybe a little restraint, sit her on a chair and tie her ankles to the legs of it - that may help - she will probably be even more tuned on by that. And tell her, at some point she needs to go that bit further... Good luck
hey mate, my girlfriend has a similar problem. I recently got her to orgasum it was lush. But the key is to take your time start off really slowly just rubbing her pussy through her undies, kissing her neck and nipples. If you havnt been doing this for at least 30-40 mins you havnt done it long enough. Good luck with it.
I agree, she has to make herself orgasm before she can do it with someone else. Usually when a girl can't climax it is not because the guy doesn't know what he is doing per se, but more that the girl doesn't know her own body enough to make him smart. Every girl is different. Keep experimenting, and don't be afraid to have open discussion about what feels good to her.
30-40 minutes? I general have my first in about 10. Maybe because my guy knows me inside and out? Being with someone for a while helps a lot.
lol my boyfriend has the same problem=/ Ive only had one and it was soo random and not expected....were waiting for the next one=) I think some girls are just harder than others....
